i am a straight male but i love gay porn.

I am a French 17 years old guy and I was much like you.
Addicted to gay porn since I'm twelve, finding guys hot, and having wild fantasies ...but being emotionnaly tuned with girls (I couldn't imagine myself with a man).

About same-sex attraction, medical studies suggests that sexual orientation is mostly defined in utero, with the action of hormons on brain circuits during a short definite time of the embryonic life. So there is no 'phase', it stays with you all your life.
But what is very different for every body is what we you do with it (denial, acceptance, guilt,...) which leads to many differents 'external' behaviours.

When I was younger, I couldn't imagine myself with a man. My 'gay side' was exclusively sexual, given I haven't anything to identify to except gay porn, and this was retrospectively scary. But later I learned I could really fall in love, I discovered the story of Christian and Olliver, Luke and Noah,... My sexual urges turned into romantic ones. Recently I skillfully got rid of my gay porn addiction (I will willingly give useful tips to any one who needs it).

In the meantime, I couldn't imagine sex with a women. They looked so fragile (=D) and straight porn was really a turn off. In brief, 'sex is always forced, sex is bad'. But as time passes by I have begun realizing that I could give them pleasure, first by caresses, then kisses, ... and that finally sex comes naturally between a man and a woman, for the greater pleasure of both.

Coming to terms with my feelings totally changed me. I was ashamed of my addiction, I was unsure of my self around girls, and around boys, (around anybody...)
Not any more. I fell like I have made a jump from a low class individual to a high rated one.
All discovered my faith, I'm deeply 'Christian'. This was just and intellectual study at first, I wanted to discover where all the moralizing about sexuality came from. So I read the Bible, was impressed, and at the end I found that churches truly missed the real message of God on one hand, and created much out of nowhere on the other hand (including the so called 'sexual morality'). I encourage everyone with religious concerns which make them repress/deny their sexuality (and thus hurting themselves) to return to the basics.

All this to say that I know now that I'm a bisexual (though more attracted to guys generally), neither a perveted straight, nor an unaffirming gay.
And all this to say: it is very likely for every one which are turned on by gay porn to have deep down the need for masculine romance. There might be exceptions, yet science say so, psychanalysis say so, God doesn't seem to disagree either.

If you have any questions, feel free to e-mail( you should find my e-mail somewhere since I'm allowed to post it here)
I must have omitted many of my points, but I will post further explanations if needed.

Same for me! I seem to also realize it's late at night.

same, but ive had a boy friend and tried it with him but it wasnt the same as doing it with my girlfriend, but gay porn still turns me on

Hello folks. I'm a 15 year old teenager. I really do like gay porn.. Not because of the sex or anything, but because of their 'stimulated' faces when -they- have sex. I like to see a man (that is usually muscular and maskuline) get more.. 'softened' by sex, it really turns me on! Everyone in my school is straight as far as I know, and I pretend to be too (because it's the thing I want to be), but I can't completely deny sex with a man... Emotionally I'd like to fall in love with a woman, have a marriage, have children and so on, but I haven't felt in love yet (though I have had many GF's..) - I have no problems looking at straight porn, but I keep looking at the man's face to see his reaction to sex. The problem is.. I don't get turned on by women as I should. This has bothered me for some years now.. Someone please reply me.. I seriously need help. (Talking to my parents won't work since they see homosexuality as ***edited by moderator*** ** inappropriate posting**)

I hav the same problem n im 13 i was molested at the age of 8 and ever since thats changed me into being attracted to guys n loving gay porn n i didnt wana b lik dat cuz it isnt right and ive told myself "get ovr it your straight wats the past is the past" but that doesnt work it does for a day or 2 but it still comes back to me ive seen therapists and they helped me for awhile lik 10 months but it still came back how do i stop

im 16 male. i consider my self straight but i am emotionally attracted to girls but not sexually at all and im sexually attracted to guys but not emotionally at all. i have been sexually attracted to guys after a faint memory(idk if it really happened or not) of me and my cousin having oral sex during the fourth grade. i think it really happened cause i didnt even know what sex or oral sex really was until the sixth grade. I've tried to forget this attraction towards guys/gay porn but the longest ive lasted was around a month. i tried looking at straight porn but my eyes got locked on the guy so i tried lesbian porn lesbian porn but i just dont feel anything toward any part of their body not even a tickle, i dont even feel the desire to kiss a girl. yet i can fall in love/crushes with girls. i am a virgin and ive never had a girlfriend for the fear of them wanting to get more intimate(kissing and everything else) and them realizing that i have no sexual feelings towards them. and i never had a boyfriend since i want to be straight. my father was always a little too cold and rigid at times(its becuase of him that i no longer feel the need to clap during shows or festivals and stuff like that) my brother hates and i dont have anything in common with my other brother but we love each other anyways. my sister is the only one that i can really go to for thing but i would never tell her about this. i dont really have good guy friends, and have one good female friend, i have other friends but we arent that close. ive always been really shy for this reason and becuase im out of shape and on the ugly side. idk i just feel like my life is a mess

Your watching too much porn....all of you. You need to cut off your porn viewership for at least two weeks. Also, try not to watch anything too sexy on TV for the two weeks. When the two weeks are up, just watch some "girls only" porn and see the difference. When you watch too much Regular porn, it will get stale, so you will go for the next thrill, gay. Trust me on this, I've taken this too far myself...I have actually slept with both, but I only ever fell in love with women, I feel nothing for men. I went to therapy and found out that I had a sexual addiction, only through cutting off the porn supply did I overcome my "guy fetish". Turns out I was completely normal, I just had a porn addiction. So, if you don't want to wind up sleeping with smelly, hairy, belching, farting men. CUT OFF THE PORN FOR TWO WEEKS.

I have sexual fantasies about males all the time. Even this conversation is turning me on. Can someone please send me some links to some good gay porn sites. I would really appreciate it and I'll return the compliment with some I like.

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I have the total exact issue going on. I feel so bad after I watch gay porn because I know my da and my family won't approve. But my mom knows that I am curious and I talk to her all of the time about it. I have had many girlfriends, but I like it when I see guys at the pool, gym, or locker room. I am called gay all of the time at school and it hurts really bad. I have fantasies about having gay sex, and when I try to gave a fantasy with a girl, I don't get erected or anything. I can't seem to stop myself from watching it and I have no idea why.

I am 21 years old and straight. I have a girlfriend, and have done since the age of 14, but i have always found men attractive. I can't help checking out other guys in the showers, and I sometimes look at gay porn on the internet. I have a healthy sex life with my girlfriend, and I love her, so I am certain that I am not gay, but I can't understand why I am so interested in other men. My eye just seems to be drawn to penis'. I have masturbated with a friend before, but I didnt find that very enjoyable (it was more awkward actually) but seeing him naked really turned me on. Why do I like penis so much??

i have the same thing, when i think about girls, i think about love and when i think about guys, i think about sex, but i dont want to do it, just watch it.

Same condition with me.

Exactly like me. I get aroused by both straight and gay porn, and I don't usually feel any attraction to males apart from this one very good looking boy who's my neighbour and has a fit body.
I consider myself straight cause I'm Muslim and my feelings towards women are stronger and I don't want to be in a relationship with a man, but I guess I wouldn't mind a roll with mah neighbour ;-)

You know, back in Ancient roman days, men would marry a wife to bear children and love, and then they would have male lovers with whom they would just have sex. The male brain is hard-wired to act this way, but many people deny, question, and confuse themselves over the labels society has given of us of gay, straight, and bisexual. There really is no label on sexuality, it's more about the individual. A woman is attractive and ovulating, she is fit for procreation and hot sex. A man is well-built, warm and strong, he is fit for sexual release and hot sex. Every individual has their preference over certain features that people have, and many of those features happen to be female-exclusive or male-exclusive, like breasts or six-packs. I do not believe you should so readily question your sexuality; if you love someone and they love you back, love them.

I'm a straight male and its been 2 years since this post was last commented on, but i just have to say a few things. I completely respect homosexuals in every way and i dont mean to offend anyone but im gonna say it say it straight. You guys are all gay and confused and/or in denial. Think about it: 1. You like gay porn 2. You are sexually attracted to men and not women. 3. You're EMOTIONALLY attracted to women... not PHYSICALLY. Stop lying to yourself and saying you aren't gay, because you are (you just dont wanna believe that or you don't know what being gay is). Stop being so afraid of being u and making dumb, self-contradicting excuses of how you aren't gay. You guys keep saying you like girls, and then saying your not attracted to them. Or saying you like to see men have sex but you don't like any men you know(Finding the right person rule still applies in the homosexual community... not everyone is right for eachother). You guys keep telling yourselves that you're something you're not, and believing it. Either your gay or bi and it is not a just a "phase" lol, you don't choose your attractions. You guys. . . it's ok to be who u are, just stop lying to yourselves with illogical reasons on how you aren't gay.

One more thing i gotta add. . . this is the dumbest thing ive ever; im gonna paraphrase what this guest said:

I love gay porn and the penis and would like to try gay sex, but im not gay. <---This is the most self-contradictory thing ive ever heard lol