I am 20 years old and I can not keep a stiff erection. In my past, I have been masterbating excessively since I was about 13. When I first started I had no problem keeping my erection, but these last few years have been quiet embarrassing. The only thing that I can think of that would be wrong with me is that I masterbate too much. But I read everywhere on the internet that masterbating will not effect my erection. I was just wondering what other options I may have so I can reverse the symptoms and regain my stiff erection.
Thanks.
Hi Southern,
Start off with a visit to your doctor, to rule out any medical condition.
Are you on any medications? Does this happen with just masturbation or even during sex?
I'm not on any medications. I dont really pay any attention to it while I masterbate. This does happens during sex. I can easily erect, just not as stiff as I used to and I cant hold the erection like I used to.
How about smoking? From your name?
Either way, see your doctor. It is important to rule out a physical problem.
Good luck.
Thoughtful mothers, when they begin to notice frequent erections in their boys, will begin a special nighttime ritual at least several times a week. At bedtime, the mom will give her son a very relaxing and thorough back rub which puts the boy in a very passive relaxed sleep, with many boys almost asleep at that point. The mom gently helps flip the boy into his back and proceeds to give a very soft and soothing massage to the boys neck and chest. This puts most boys into a quasi-sleep mode. At that point, the mom simply moves the massage lower on the boy’s body, including his boxer briefs. Many boys at this point aren’t mentally aware or register what’s going on. He won’t notice (or care) when her fingertips start to gently massage his boxer briefs. Won’t notice when his penis begins to lengthen and stiffen inside the briefs. But mom will. She will then begin to focus her massage on the material over the head of the boy’s penis, the most sensitive area of his young body. He will attain a full erection very rapidly. He won’t notice when her fingers then begin to massage the glans of his penis, below the head, nor that her other hand is gently massaging the fabric covering his testicles. At this point he is fully sexually aroused. The mom will soon feel the wetness through the fabric of his precum. At this point, the mom will stop and use her fingers to open the slit of the boxer briefs, allowing her son’s erection to naturally come out in the open air. Using her son’s own precum as a lubricant, she can gently massage his entire penis with her hand to bring him to a full and quick ejaculation in his sleep. Some mothers instead will simply lower their mouth onto the head of the penis and using a combination of sucking and licking the head, bring the boy to ejaculate directly into her mouth.