We don't do it but I'd like to be able to orgasm when my girlfriend pleases me. It feels good but I can't seem to get over the edge and just bust when she is doing her thing down there.
I have tried not masturbating a week in advance and just bottling everything up. That hasn't worked.
I've read some places about mental blocks people can have to having an orgasm with someone...anyone know more?
I've read that making you penis more sensitive by putting lotion on a couple times a day...is this true?
Is it possible that I may need her to use her "body language" and sort of tease me and stuff like that to make me orgasm?
Its becoming frustrating because she feels inadequate and I don't know what the deal is. Its supposed to be fun and intimate so it kinda ruins it.
Any help will be appreciated. Thank you.
I have tried not masturbating a week in advance and just bottling everything up. That hasn't worked.
I've read some places about mental blocks people can have to having an orgasm with someone...anyone know more?
I've read that making you penis more sensitive by putting lotion on a couple times a day...is this true?
Is it possible that I may need her to use her "body language" and sort of tease me and stuff like that to make me orgasm?
Its becoming frustrating because she feels inadequate and I don't know what the deal is. Its supposed to be fun and intimate so it kinda ruins it.
Any help will be appreciated. Thank you.
Yes, there can be lots of causes of this situtation.
First, you may be worried about pregnancy.
Second, you don't specify just what it is when she "Does her stuff down there."
I'm not a big fan of trying to treat the genitals with sensitizing lotions...
But sometimes it takes your personal knowledge of what pleases you and specifically what you need to "get over the hump".
With more experience, and trusting your partner, you may find that you can get past it.
Also, if you rest and relax, you may find that you are more likely to come.
And, your idea to wait a couple of weeks before you have relations with her was a good one. You might try that again.
Good luck.
First, you may be worried about pregnancy.
Second, you don't specify just what it is when she "Does her stuff down there."
I'm not a big fan of trying to treat the genitals with sensitizing lotions...
But sometimes it takes your personal knowledge of what pleases you and specifically what you need to "get over the hump".
With more experience, and trusting your partner, you may find that you can get past it.
Also, if you rest and relax, you may find that you are more likely to come.
And, your idea to wait a couple of weeks before you have relations with her was a good one. You might try that again.
Good luck.