I need help with the different signals a girl might send to a guy when she wants to have sex with him. I dont know if my friend has sent any of them to me becuase i dont understand them. If she hasnt then i have nothing to worry about. If she has then i dont want to feel rude.
You don't want to be rude? Well aren't you a gentleman.
Let's see... well, every girl is going to be different. Some girls are going to be direct - unless she says "I want your nuts" then she's not interested. Other girls are going to take a long time to get around to the issue, like in the course of an hour-long conversation.
I guess a good place to start is her level of physical contact. Hugs, general closeness, those kinds of things. If you watch a movie with her and she sidles up to you, make your move.
Try creating opportunities for her to get comfortable with just you. Like I said, a movie or something. If she gets close to you, make your move. If she seems nervous and shy, it could just be cold feet, but that's a flip of a coin. At that point, it's on you to find out for sure. I'd say make your move, but you don't want to scare her.
You know your lady-friend better than I do. If none of that seems viable, then you might want to try the direct approach. No, nothing like "YA WANNA DO IT?" Instead of waiting for her signals, try sending your own, and see how she responds. A hug here, a brush of the hair there... small gestures go a long way.
But the two things you want to keep in mind above all else, 1: Don't work under the presumption that she wants you, and 2: Don't do or say anything that might make her feel pressured. Just like sensing her signals that she's interested in you, you need to be aware of any signals that she's NOT interested, lest you do or say something that puts her off you.
thanks. I wish i would have known this about a week ago.