Well when he try putting it in it hurt me and it would come back out and it wouldn't stay for long and he would try pushing it in hard and that was the part that hurt the most. But after we were just kissing and then I moved because I was scare that he would cumm but I did feel like something wet I don't know if it was me I don't know.
I really don't think so honey, just relax, and some girls have complained about their periods being late after having sex for the first time - there is no real reason for this - probably hormones etc. So just hang tight and let me know when your period comes OK
So but can you get pregnant the first time you have sex? And I just talked to my boyfriend and he told me he whent to his doctor and he told him what was going on and the doctor asked him if he penis was hurting when we finsh and he said yeah what does that mean?
Due to it being soft and him trying to ram it in your vagina, he was asking if he has damaged his penis! And YES you can get pregnant the first time! That's a myth that teenagers say, but think about it - what's different between your first time and your 2nd or 33rd? IF there is a sperm and an egg - it WILL happen eventually! I don't understand teenagers thinking that their first time doesn't count!? Doesn't make sense! Also when you are hurting, this might have helped you not being wet to help the sperm along!
Ok I get you on that with the first time but what I didn't get it was that what the doctor told him if he was happy and if at the end when we finsh it it was hurting well he said that's why he didn't cumm
As I said honey, only time will tell! When you get your period this will prove to you that you are NOT pregnant! And what irritates me about your boyfriend going to his doctor and ALL his doctor was interested in was if he was in pain? Well what about "How come you didn't use a condom and how is she, and that because of what he did, it could have lead to a pregnancy!?
Well I don't know what else they said but he told ke that and well now that I read this one now u make it sound like I am but is okay I understand your making your best on trying 2 help me and after going throw all this am learning my big leson here.
Just know honey it's NOT your fault, you only know what you know! and from the sounds of it teachers were NOT explaining everything to kids! IF I was a teacher - just like I've done with my children - I would have said "OK lets get to the bottom of rumours and what people say" And then let kids ask questions like "My friend says you can't get pregnant your first time" so then the teacher would say "That is incorrect, you CAN get pregnant at ANYTIME you have unprotected sex, even for a second" I think this would have helped you FAR before all of this! Also I want to tell you something I should have told you before! Technically you are STILL a virgin, as he didn't break your hymen and you really didn't have sex! So after this is all sorted and you have your period and get on with your life! I want you to think of your virginity as the ULTIMATE gift! You CAN'T take it back and rewrap it, it is a gift to someone that REALLY loves you and you love him, and he will be gentle USE PROTECTION (for himself AND you), and that after he will stay with you and be there always - instead of someone having sex then moving on to the next one! And this happens ALL the time, young girls think that the guy REALLY likes them - they give the gift to them - and he scrumples it up and throws it in the garbage can! I have to tell you that this is one of the WORST feelings a young girl can have! And MANY of these devastated girls, just think of themselves as loose, and they all of a sudden are being used by EVERY guy! And another thing when girls get like that they feel like they can NEVER get clean! It is a HORRIBLE feeling of guilt, disgust, embarrassment, weakness etc. So don't get there OK? Honor yourself and have LOVE, trust, compassion and history with the guy you WILL endup "dating" not just messing around! Let me know when your period comes on OK?
Oh my god I have to thank you so much for everything you had showed me and told me I got it today :) I am so happy and I had learn from all this :) :)
You are welcome honey!