I am 24 I cant hardley sleep even when ive only had two hours of sleep the night before my teeth are rotting out even though i have taken care of them since i was young. I have been diagnosed with high bloodpressure i found out that i had hpv four years ago when i was pregnant and got rid of it within a year after finding out but stoped having pap smears when my husband got hurt at work not even a year after my see section. I had to take care of him and lift him so i always figured my back pain was from all that but now im always bloated feeling and i have lower back pain and right abdominal pain and sometimes when i sit down i have pain shoot from my cervix to my right side i.I sometimes have a slight discharge but i have always had that like this since i was young. I sometimes bleed very little after rough sex but only once in a while like say one out of a hundred it doesnt hurt to have sex at all but im still worried. Now i have this knot in my upper stomach but ive always been a hefty girl and now im skinny so as far as i know it could be an organ and im just not used to being able to feel them. Oh and i also have an irregular heartbeat to and all of this started in the last four years please tell me what i need to do im afraid im going to not be here for my three year old or be able to take care of my disabled/braindamaged husband and i know i should of already had a pap smear but its so hard to find the time for myself im so busy with them to i havent even been able to think of myself.

Please tell me if it could be serius because if it is i will take myself to the er right away . Please answer as soon as possible so i can be here for my family forever my son needs a parent and his father isnt capable of being that anymore.