I am very nervous and needs help urgently. I visited my boyfriend some weeks back and one thing led to the other and he started romancing me and later on he took off my clothes but i gave him a stern warning that i don't want sex of which he agreed and said he just wanted to cum and being a novice i did not understand what he meant by cum so i just sat back and watched, the next thing i saw he was his sperm on my laps/thigh and after he finished a got a towel and i cleaned it off..... but lately i started having some funny signs, my breast became kind of heavy and my nipple is paining me, i am very nervous as i haven't seen my menstruation for this month and the most heart breaking thing about it is i don't know how to count my cycle, but i know the last one i saw was on the 19th July..........Pls help, answers are urgently needed pls
The tricky part here is that you don't track your cycle, so it is hard to know if you were in your fertile window.
Keeping track of your cycle days is easy, the first day of your cycle is the day your start full period bleeding (that is day 1).
Most women are fertile around the middle of their cycle, I.E. on a 28 day cycle the most fertile time is normally days 10 to 18. In saying that best to avoid unprotected sex or getting cum on your vagina between days 5 to 20 if your have a 28 to 30 day cycle.