I first lost my virginity at 16 and I thought sex was great, but it was always painful (which I read in another topic that it could be caused to lack of lubrication). But my main concern is I don't think I have ever climaxed, I don't even know if I've had an orgasm.
My boyfriend now and I have awesome sex, but I don't know if I have orgasms... mostly because I tend to stop when I feel like I have to pee. Could that be that I have to "cum" and for some odd reason my body just won't let me release it?
I really want to have all the great symptoms these women have when they orgasm or climax -- so any help or advice would be awesome :]
My boyfriend now and I have awesome sex, but I don't know if I have orgasms... mostly because I tend to stop when I feel like I have to pee. Could that be that I have to "cum" and for some odd reason my body just won't let me release it?
I really want to have all the great symptoms these women have when they orgasm or climax -- so any help or advice would be awesome :]
The female orgasam is a learned response to manipulation of the genital area either by digital manipulation(most effective), vaginal penetration(various methods apply here), and oral stimulation(often cited as the most pleasurable to both parties when mutual communication of specific stimulus has been communicated).
Actually experiencing and awareness of a female orgasam varys from iividual. Based on your comments, it is likely your sensation to urinate is a bodily signal that a climax is immenint, however the experience is new to you. I suggest next time the activity occurs you just "let her rip" and either pee or cum(you'll probably experience an orgasam, but hey, Golden showers are fun , too. Hope it helps.
**edited by moderator**
Actually experiencing and awareness of a female orgasam varys from iividual. Based on your comments, it is likely your sensation to urinate is a bodily signal that a climax is immenint, however the experience is new to you. I suggest next time the activity occurs you just "let her rip" and either pee or cum(you'll probably experience an orgasam, but hey, Golden showers are fun , too. Hope it helps.
**edited by moderator**
First, orgasm and climaxing are the same thing :-) Second, if you don't think you've had an orgasm then you haven't. It sounds like you are either getting on the verge of orgasm, or it's becoming too sensitive and you should switch positions or something. Just keep practicing, dont give up, and keep going when you feel you're getting close! The more in the moment you are (only thinking about how it feels, nothing else...) the more likely you are to cum. good luck.