I feel sick about this whole situation. So this weekend my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time, although its not the first time for either of us. however, it was a pretty steamy weekend and we had sex six times. All six we used condoms but my boyfriend was experiencing performing issues? And found he couldn't keep it up? So for the first 10 seconds he wouldn't wear one and then he'd put one on. No irregularitives with the condoms happened- but I'm not on any contraceptives and I've been reading a lot about pre cum. I'm due for my period within the next couple of days- but I need to get this morning after pill if we think I'm pregnant. No signs of pregnancy yet- although I need the bathroom a lot. Freaking out here! Please please help? I'd greatly appreciate some opinions.
Hi Senseless,
When EXACTLY do you expect your period? If it is less than about 10 days after you had sex, the odds of pregnancy are low. You would have ovulated likely no later than day 16 of your cycle. 48 hours later the egg is not viable.
The average cycle is about 28 days so that gives you about 10 days were your fertility is decreasing.
The problem with what you both did was that merely by him inserting his penis, after he's already ejaculated, he could squeeze any semen out of his penis and into your vagina. Think squeezing a tube of toothpaste. That semen may contain sperm.
The morning after pill is only good for about 72 hours after having sex. FYI, the morning after pill is not for "if we think I'm pregnant." It's to prevent a pregnancy from occuring. If you were pregnant, it won't abort it.