I feel embarassed - Need help masterbating and reaching climax!

i didn't read everyones comments because i noticed ,You're trying also in the shower so when you try in the shower.adjust the water to whatever you'd prefer.i prefer, warrm, because the warmth feels extra nicethen the shower head, enough to where you can lay back in the tub,Or lean back in your shower + feel a strong..(/vibrating/smooth/whichever youlike.) streamhitagainst your clit . . It'll feel really intense but thats when you have to relax and start letting your muscles enjoyyyyy it.pull back + expose your clit more to the running water + perhaps slip something in from time to time.i think it would help !

Try taking apart a toothbrush for ur cilt and then take a king suzed sharphie (cleaned) and when you feel something eith the toothbrush keep going on ur cilt and start thrusing the sharpie in and out and then you will stiff up, but keep thrushing then you will feel a wetness and then you can take the sharpie out. Gratz ur first orgasm

It's not embarrassing to not know how to masterbate..... I didn't for the longest time and now every time I do I neck around as we'll an from what I read that means you have gotten an orgasm and supposedly it's supposed to feel good but it feels like you are about to sweat to death.

well first you should be rubbing your front and maybe if it helps (it helps me) if you have something that turns you on. When ou finally reach your orgasm you should feel great and it feels soo nice that you don't wanna stop. When you do it, and you reach it, you will auto-matically suck it in the let go and suck it in. Once you feel the best feeling you have ever had in that sort of way that is when you know.

Hope that helped

I regret that I cannot get into this much right now, I may have some information at a later date when I can concentrate on it more fully. I see others are trying to help you, but you can let me know if you would like to hear more. For now, I am inserting something from a post I wrote to someone else. I really think it can help you, but it will need some self exploration to learn how to use it. Unfortunately, this will not cover it in depth, but might help get you started. Next paragraph begins the insert:

While we are talking about orgasms, learning a little about your body can go a long way towards helping you achieve one. As I have written elsewhere, the clitoris is like a iceberg, the majority of it is below the surface and it gets much bigger as your arousal increases. This is because the clitoris is made of erectile tissue that engorges with blood as your arousal progresses, similar to what the penis does but below the skin instead of above it. The clitoris has sections that reach down deep into your tissues that are often called "legs" because of their shape. These can be massaged through the walls of the vagina or anus but that might be difficult to do under normal instances. When fully engorged, however, the inner clitoral tissues have enlarged so that it is much easier to stimulate them internally. (We can discuss the where and how later.)

This is why it is so important take the necessary time for foreplay and to become fully aroused. Although only 35% percent of women routinely have orgasms from penile penetration, most of them want to be able to do that. Your best bet for this is when you are aroused enough that his penis is better able to massage the clitoris from the inside. (The g spot for example, but there are others.) Don't get your hopes up too far, though. It may be your best shot but the reality remains that the majority of women need more than that to reach orgasm.

A really good short, non-pornographic, video about the structure of your clitoris is called "The Internal Clitoris" and it can be found on YouTube. I don't know the rules on using links, but you can find this by searching for "youtube the internal clitoris". Most likely it will be the first link. It is just over 3 minutes long and it really is worth your time. Further research on this can open a path to greater sexual enjoyment. You might consider searching for terms like: clitoris, clitoral legs, urethral sponge, female prostrate, and g spot just to start.

Well my girlfriendand i have sex all the tim but she lays on her stomach while i thrust from behind and she has all kinds of orgasms but try the G spot

I'm telling you, an electric toothbrush against your clit is amazing.