im 15, and my boyfriend plays with me and it feels great..but when he's gona finger me i feel sore..and i just kinda get away..i spoke with my friend about it and she told me that i should start fingering myself until i feel ready for him to finger me..i dont know wat i should do..is something wrong with me? whats happening to me? plz someone help me.. :-( ,i wana feel good and i want my boyfriend to feel good too.. plz help me ill appreciate it.. :-)
well....ur 15 u shouldnt be doin dat anyway. but hey its ur body..so bk to the question...u didnt say what kind of soreness.....but if i were u i would use somethin similar to a dildo like a can or somethin and try to stretch the "area" out a little...u can also feel sore because ur "area" isnt wet and if the "area" isnt properly lubed with whatever it will feel like a brushburn
look not being funny but dont give her advice like using a can, thats dirty.
She obvisouly dont enjoy being touched yet because otherwise she would get wet but thats normal.
She shouldnt finger herself.. dont listen to your friend, not being horrible but you need to talk to your boyfriend about it as you could use lube.
At your age its normal not to get wet because your body isnt ready for that yet but give yourself some time and dont do that kind of stuff yet.
She obvisouly dont enjoy being touched yet because otherwise she would get wet but thats normal.
She shouldnt finger herself.. dont listen to your friend, not being horrible but you need to talk to your boyfriend about it as you could use lube.
At your age its normal not to get wet because your body isnt ready for that yet but give yourself some time and dont do that kind of stuff yet.