I get turned on by men but I like women???

Hey I'm 13 too and from reading that I'm pretty sure ur my clone but I'm worried because I don't really get feelings for girls so yeh...

You ARE gay, and there's nothing wrong with that. I used to have that same mentality.. Then i realized i was not gonna be happy thinking about a man whilst having sex with a girl. Google gay bears, you might find what you are looking for.

You must be my twin. I feel the exact way, i try straight porn, but I don't get hard or anything. I like adults, 18-30 years, male. I watch gay porn yet i'm straight. This must be normal.

I'm actually the same but completely opposite! Haha! I'm a woman and I feel emotionally/romantically attracted to men but I cannot be sexually aroused as easily by thinking of them or even seeing them. I find I get attracted by their faces better than their bodies that's what makes me like them and if they dance I like it ... but woman since I went through puberty at 12 have turned me on sexually more quickly, and have even made me orgasm better and with every masturbation rather than every other masturbation as it was with me thinking of a guy, and 99% of my sex dreams involve women trying to seduce and have sex with me.
If I want to get off from guys I have to watch a lot of porn before I'm wet enough and even then I don't always achieve intense orgasm throughout - I think that's to do with the mind, you can't orgasm properly without the mind getting involved - whereas with women I don't have to watch porn at all! I can easily get turned on by imagining them.
I've had relationships with a few guys but none have lasted because I couldn't get the drive to have sex with them. I don't mind kissing, that's the best part, or hugging and being romanced, and with guys I prefer sensual seductions, but with women I like it all ... I too believed I couldn't make my sexual fantasies with women a reality but now I feel I would be up for it because I've had too much negative experience with guys to care anymore ... I am also more likely to fall head over heals for a woman. I had a crush on my teacher in high school that's how I know what my sexuality is for sure. But I didn't figure it out until recently, years later. Perhaps you need to see what turns you on without the porn, that would make you more certain!

Same here. I don't know why?

I wouldn't say gay. But I am sure it will change.

I have that as well, for me it comes from the fact that I've been abused by someone hairy so my brain associated hairy to sex which is way I like when a woman has a hairy bush,you need to separate those thoughts that you have been so used to.

I have the same thing can we talk

I have the same,experience and I'm so confused I'm 15 and sometimes I'd force myself to watch girls but I can't I get bored but when I see them naked I get embarrassed. The sight of a women's vaginas turns me off but I want to be with a girl

Hi Guest
What is your reaction when you look at guys and see them naked?
If your not really attracted to girls is your wanting to be with one because that is what you feel is expected or do you feel other people expect that of you.
Who a person is naturally attracted to is not a choice the confusion may just be your focusing on what you feel you should be doing rather than accepting that your not attracted to girls. Discovering your sexuality is part of puberty and it will become clear to you what your sexuality is and for some it can be difficult to come to terms with their sexuality.

Help me I have the same problem