I just had my abortion yesterday, I did the pill at home one. I've been with my boyfriend now for about a year... he's been separated and is now going through a bad divorce. I wanted to keep the baby... he already has 3 kids... he basically told me that me having the baby would make him lose his girls in the custody battle... and if he lost them he'd kill himself. So where the f**k does that leave me? I try and talk to him about my feelings and he just replies with, "holy f**k are you serious right now? let me focus on protecting my children." I can't even explain how I feel right now. I feel hurt, used, unwanted and not good enough. Going through the early pregnancy and the early abortion I still felt a lot of physical pain, yet he still expects me to keep the house clean and gets annoyed when he had to do laundry today, calling me disgusting. I am so beyond hurt right now. I seriously can't take it and I don't know what to do. I don't know why I'm even staying with this as****e. I deserve to be loved, I deserve to hold somewhat of an importance in a guys life. And the f*****g amazing thing is I had that before this excuse of a man and I broke up with the good man for this as****e. I seriously can't stand my life right now. So, yes I know how you feel.
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i went through the same thing.. two weeks ago i got an abortion.. im 16 and i really didnt want to, but my boyfriend kept saying its his choice too, and we'r just not ready. but really, whos ever ready for what a baby bring ? .. anyways, i really felt strongly about abortions.. i felt so guilty after i got it.. my boyfriend is still with me though, and wev talked about it, and wev agreed to now have a baby.. we know that we cant replace the one that we done have anymore.. but it'll just kind of make me feel better.. idk it might sound weird but ya.. anyways, hang in there cuz i know its hard when u dont have it and u were pretty much forced to get an abortion.. youll get better. it makes no sense though.. the guys think "its my choice too" , but really, if the girl doesnt feel comfortable getting an abortion.. she shouldnt.. but ,, we love our guys.. anywho.. hang in there.
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Hi ....
I was in your position about two weeks ago and I had an abortion as well.
I really regret my desicion.
You SHOULD'NT have been pressured into it just like I was.
Sorry :/
x
I was in your position about two weeks ago and I had an abortion as well.
I really regret my desicion.
You SHOULD'NT have been pressured into it just like I was.
Sorry :/
x
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Hi, I am going through that as we speak, I am 5 weeks preg and my bf wants me to abort, he has told me if I keep it he will support me but prob hate me and the baby! I feel forced into having an abortion as I have 2 children already from a different man who left when my youngest was 2 weeks and eldest was 3! I don't think I could cope on my own again! I am booked in for my consultation on Monday then the following week for the abortion! I an worried I will resent him after as I don't feel its what I want! My life is such a mess! I have had severe depression before and I am scared I am slipping back into it x
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Hi, I am going through that as we speak, I am 5 weeks preg and my bf wants me to abort, he has told me if I keep it he will support me but prob hate me and the baby! I feel forced into having an abortion as I have 2 children already from a different man who left when my youngest was 2 weeks and eldest was 3! I don't think I could cope on my own again! I am booked in for my consultation on Monday then the following week for the abortion! I an worried I will resent him after as I don't feel its what I want! My life is such a mess! I have had severe depression before and I am scared I am slipping back into it x x x
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I found out away ago im 6 weeks pregnant but there could be a chance baby is abnormal as i was on accutane medication...as from my GP
Went to see the gynae and he told me chances are higher that the baby wont suffer abnormalities because the tablet intake and date of me falling pregnant is far apart....now my finance is pressuring me into an abortion because he was banking on the baby not being normal and we are not ready for a second child...i am scared that i might regret the abortion....
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Don't do it. I hope you didn't. I had an abortion i didn't want 8 months ago. To make matters worse i am not pregnant again yet. I am not on any birth control. I get so jealous and sad when i see babies and pregnant people and kids also. I don't have custody of my kids and i don't deserve that because i am a good mom. When i had my kids i was happy i didn't get high and i was doing good. Now i am just lost. I want to be pregnant so bad right now. Please pray for me that i am blessed with custody back and blessed with a new baby too. I missed out on important parts of my kids lives because they were taken and they shouldn't have been. I want to go through the baby experience again. Why why why is it that every month i get my period. I scream and try and fight it and hope its only spotting implantation bleeding but it always comes i have raw sex with no birth control it's been 8 months since the abortion and i am really worried that something went wrong where i can't get pregnant again
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So recently I have been thinking alot about my abortion. I was dating this guy for a year and somehow I got pregnant, we use protection so it came as a shock to the both of us. He immediately started pushing for the abortion. I began searching adoption options. After having my mom side with my boyfriend I went ahead with the procedure that I paid for out of pocket by myself. I wasnt sure about my decision and rushed into it to satisfy my boyfriend and mom and now three months later I'm miserable. My relationship with my mom and boyfriend have changed for the worse, I can't talk about this to anyone because no one else knows, and with every passing day I thinkabout the progress my baby would be making if i didn't kill it. I feel like things would be better if I just killed myself.
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i feel the exact same, i found out i was pregnant and was so excited however my partner did not feel the same. He pushed me for an abortion where pretty much it was either keep it or lose him. I ended up choosing to abort. every since then i have felt not the same..... im 22 and ive have 2 miscarriages and 1 abortion and i think its taking its toll.
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You should have your entire reproductive system removed (including your vagina). Vermin s**m!
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I know this is beyond late , but I pray to God you are free from that man. I know how you feel ... It's not easy. I was in one for 6 years an it was hell. I'm praying for you.
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I know this is such an old post but I was forced into abortion by a narcissistic, controlling, manipulative bastard who I was engaged to be married too. He not only forced abortion on "his soulmate" but said the most uncalled for, crazy things to me, humiliated me in front of his friends, leading them to think I was a crazy b***h, tried to break my family bonds especially with my little sister whom I am very close too and gave me an eating disorder!!! Sorry I know this is soooo off topic but my abortion was 4 years ago now, and I came across this question as lately out of the blue I have been really depressed and regretting my abortion all those years ago. I was 18 at the time I'm now 21. I just feel for you so much, I know you are older then me but I can't imagine if I'd married that man, I was very lucky. Please get out, Look after yourself and do what's best for you. You deserve too be happy with a man that loves and respects you and your darling babies when you two have them. He is out there!!! Leave this guy, I know it's easier said than done trust me I'm still in the process of tying to let go, No contact ect.. Anyway hopefully since this is such an old post that's exactly what you've done and your happy and content with life. Regardless of where your at I'm hoping for you :) xx
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Reading these posts brings two thoughts to mind.
1) Abortion is SO wrongly called a woman's issue, or a woman's right. Obviously, it isn't just about women, it's more than a woman's issue. Men are so often insturmental in these decisions and as usual, the woman takes the pain and heat.
2) If you get pregnant and are pressured into abortion by the sperm donar, cross your legs till he is ready to make the necessary committment for you to choose to lay your body and soul down at sacrifice to his whims. If he isn't ready to step up to the plate when he impregnates you and your choice is to make a home and family for that baby, cut him off and or kick his sorry ass to the curb! Don't allow any man to disrespect you like that!
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i just found out im pregnant too, and my boyfriend and his family are forcing me into aborting the baby, im 21 and i had two children at a very very young age and they where taking away and adopted but im alot older now and in a elationship, but if he wont support me im scared i'll loose custody of this one too. help im really scared and really really adimant i do not want an abortion!
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