I hate myself because of my huge labias

Hi guest, your labia has nothing to do with you masturbating its all part of your DNA what probably means other members of your family have them to. You say you don't want to tell your parents about it but if you have an operation how are you going to explain your time away and the after care your going to need to them? Have you ever talked to your sister about it because she could be the same and that goes for your mum to. You don't want to get into a relationship because you say your vagina is ugly and you don't want a guy to see it but your find that guys will love them because when they go down to give you oral sex they are able to suck on them. Don't hate your body for what you have been given look on it as a special gift and learn to love it :-)

Honey, here's the deal. Masturbation certainly did not cause your your "larger labia than the average girl" but then, how do you know what is normal? I was also very timid, shy, whatever you want to call it, just because I wasn't comfortable with my sexuality. I too had been masturbating since 12. Hmmm....maybe that's the new age now but it wasn't then. It took me YEARS to come into myself. With all the information out there, there is absolutely no reason for surgery. Remember we ARE in a society where we can KEEP ours and learn , when your first love comes around, he'll probably think you are beautiful and they ALL look like that! You've got tell him and show him and play together, explore, make it a wonderful relationship where there should always be boundaries though and respect them. I've got the best relationship I have ever had with amazing and powerful sex life. I'll be 62 my next birthday, he's 63 and you know what? He thinks my vagina, every part of it everything, nooks and crannies....yeah I didn't know I had them either! I swear, it's like a shrine for him and he makes me feel beautiful! ( I guess all things change). And lastly (I'm sure you're ready ; ) is this. Go to the website "The Wall of Vaginas". It will blow you away. It is a beautiful thing and the women that volunteered to help with this are amazing as well. Maybe I just should have just started with that and said good luck but you needed, maybe, to hear you will grow up and become a beautiful woman. Don't be in such a hurry...look at me! And I'm cool! If my outsides looked as great as my inside feel, I'd give all of you a run for your money!

Everything you said tells me you ARE a very normal teenager. You all feel you have something wrong with your parts, boys too, it's part of being young. Who are you comparing yourself to? How many other girls have you seen? You mention you have a sister, have you seen hers? Maybe she has the same gift. No she will not count as your guardian unless she has been appointed legally. I'm sure there are ways to deal with itchy and uncomfortable. You didn't do anything to create what you have, it's from your DNA.
That extra skin you have is what would have become the pouch that holds testicles if you had become a boy. Every boy has to live with that in his pants and they get itchy too.

When you have a partner you are not "showing your vagina" to him, you are allowing him the privilege of loving your most intimate and wonderful parts. If he doesn't feel that way about it you need to find another guy. If he insults you over what it looks like, you need to kick him to the curb. Some boys think if they make you feel you have something wrong you will allow them to do whatever they want, don't fall for that.

As Planegirl says, every part of it, all the nooks and crannies, are a delight to explore. I love to touch, kiss, lick and just love every bit of it. It feels so good when I can make it respond to my loving touch. Unless he wants to do that for you, he doesn't deserve you.