I'm a 14 female. I have been masturbating for a while now, but can't seem to quite get the hang of it. So any ways I can use to really get going? I finger myself and rub. I'm gonna start using sharpies, but I don't have a removable shower head. So any ways to do it??
First off, does it feel good? Or are you masturbating because you think you should?
Do you get wet? If not, try some lube. Get a batterry powered toothbrush. Those things can really get you going, especially if you don't have a lot of hair in the way.
It feels good. i do it because i get so turned on that i need a release. yes, i do get wet, very wet.
Do you think you haven't orggasmed yet?
Maybe i don't get your question too much. when u say you don't seem to get the hang of it, do you mean it seems like it takes a lot of work to cum?
some other things might be a smallish candle and doing it in front of a mirror (esp. if you are turned on by visual stuff). if you like thoughts more than sights try reading a hot story online or something. trimming or shaving hair can make your skin seem more sensitive also.