My name is Maxine, I haven't had my period yet, there's no lumps coming out of my vagina, I'm a virgin, and I have a question about my inner vaginal lips. I'm going onto thirteen in 2 months, and I do masturbate occasionally, about 2 times every week, I do try to stop with this, addiction I guess you can call it, because I have noticed that my inner vaginal lips are wrinkly, purple, and long and I think that maybe they're big because of me masturbating too hard, but they stay this size. I estimate them to be about 3 cm long, I desperately want to tell my mom about them and ask if I could get surgery on them but I'm scared that I'll be judged and it's really embarrassing! I'm scared to go to pool parties because them look like little lumps in my bottoms, and a lot of my friends are friends with bullies, so whatever party I go to, there's a bully and I don't want anyone seeing these... I'm scared, what if when I'm older, I start having sex and whomever I'm with will be disgusted by them, and then they tell someone and the rumor spreads like wild fire. Is there any way to shrink them by myself with any home remedies, I'm broke so I also can afford surgery, and I think it'd be weird going to the store and buying vaginal cream, A 13 YEAR OLD buying vaginal cream...? Is this caused by me masturbating? If so, is there a way to quit masturbating? Surgery is not an option!
Hi Maxine! I am freshly 13 myself and I have the same thing you do. I was worried and so I got on here freaking out and I looked it up. Most people say that it's perfectly normal to have big, purple vaginal lips. I just want you too know that your not the only one trust me and that you should go to pool parties because if your friends are going to bully you that you need to find new friends. And FYI they're have been horror stories about people who have had those surgeries and they have made people sick, and made them bleed incorrectly! But anyways I hope this helps you.
I replied once but forgot to say something If whoever your 69-ing with doesn't like what they see they aren't for you I have a bad habit of being very unconfident and I hope your not.