I have one large labor minora and a small one. I'm really insecure about it and me and by current boyfriend are talking about doing stuff. I'm really worried that he'll think it's disgusting and nasty. Should I talk to him about it ? Is it normal to have a large one and a small one ?
It is not unusual for one to be larger than the other. But you give no indication of actual size. However, your boyfriend (if he has any character) should not think it nasty.
What would you say if he had a small penis, or perhaps a large one? What would you say if one testicle was larger than the other?
It is all part of us being unique.
What experience has he had with other girls? What experience have you had with other boys?
You could broach the subject with him. If he does show any concern about the presentation of your genitals, he is not worth your time. He must think more of you than your intimate parts. Likewise you with him.