I always thought I am a strong character and usually I am but recently I lost my wife. I can't move on since this happened and am not managing to work, to move, to think. I know I should wake up but it seems impossible mission at this moment-is there any way I could move on for I feel I need this one step just to get back on old track but I don't where to start from.
Why don't you start from your mind in sense that you manage somehow to understand that this is usual life circle the ones dears to us dies and we are supposed to move on with best memories on them but keeping on with our lives at the same time. The important is not to forget about them and to keep them fresh in our minds and memories and maybe in some cases finding a new partner, why not- though it is still early but try to think this way. My dad suffered a lot when my mum died and it took him few years to recover from this event but finally he found the way to cope with this and I personally made him think of the possibility to find himself another partner. And that is what he has done-he has a new wife, I have a good stepmother but all this doesn't mean we have forget about my mum for she still makes the most beautiful and the most important of our lives.