Hello, Im Monse, Im 23 years old. I have been in a long-lasting, committed relationship with a girl for 7 years. Yeap, since middle school!!. I love her so much, really, and we have a normal sex live. However, since ive been with her since very early in my life , I havent had neither the opportunity, nor the desire, to have sex with a man. But I constantly fantasized with vaginal penetration. We have tried with few fingers, four is the maximun, I think. Recently, I got a new dildo, thinking that, as I havent experienced any discomfort with the fingers, on the contrary, I wasnt going to have any problem with the dildo. But, oh my! I was wrong. I can get maybe only the tip of the dammed thing, even when im completely aroused and helped by the girlfriend. So i think i have my hymen intact still. We really want to break it, so I can experienced this I want so badly. But I have read many things in Internet about rupturing your vaginal wall, so I figured that maybe, if I pushed to hard, I can hurt myself. Idont want that. Please Help m, Im desperate. I want to know, if maybe theres a right way of using a dildo the first time to make sure it is safe and pleasurable. Thnks! :)
PSD: Im sorry for my english, its not my first tongue!
Maybe try a smaller dildo?
Sorry but I would like to say that please wait till marriage or do natural act with your B friend if there is no any.option with you !