It all started on friday with side pain then feeling the need to pee constantly etc the pain got excruciating,I threw up so went to the ER the doctor then found i have a 4mm kidney stone.I couldnt call the urologist until monday(yesterday)so I called got an appointment today(tuesday)and he said my stone is really close to the bladder.I have the option to get ureteroscopic(the stone is taken out with a tiny basket) but I am also torn.Should I get the surgery as soon as I can? Or should I try to pass it myself first? I am just really scared of it getting stuck on it's way out.But getting the surgery would also bring a stent which i've read to be major pain.and passing a stone the pain is usually gone right after it's passed.what should i do?Thanks!