i'am 16 and i live in the UK.. me and my bf who is 19, we had sex for about 1 minute - without protection.. it happened yesterday and i'am scared incase i'am pregnant.. he said to me that he didn't cum in me.. but im scared incase he did even a slight bit? as i had research it's called "precum" .. we were going to get the morning after pill today.. but he wasn't aloud to buy it, it had to be me. i was in my house at the time.. being so worried.. i CANNOT let my parent's know.. because i'am known to never do anything like that.. and i'am not aloud a bf in the first place.. because of my culture? i'am continuing education and was also signing up for modeling.. and i have a whole life ahead of me.. it's just WAY to soon for a child.. we discussed that if i turned pregnant then we were deciding for abortion.. but i cannot get parental consent.. i'd be killed. what can i do.. im so scared :-(!
first, if your parents are super strict as you explain, make sure u delete your browser history off your computer, and also delete your cookies files to be sure they cant find out that your looking it up.. as far as getting the morning after pill, you have 72 hrs from the time of intercourse to take the pill.. you can go to any pharmacy and they can sale you the pill with no questions asked.. well, at least in the us but im not sure about the uk.. although it is really scary for you right now, try to stay calm because if you act too nervous or scared your parents may suspect something.. also, when was the fist day of your last period.. in general (and this is generally speaking) women ovulate 14days after the onset of their last period.. so lets say your last period started july 1, your estimated ovulation date would be july 14.. this is the time that is highly likely you would get pregnant.. a woman only ovulates 1x a month.. so hopefully for you, you were not at that time.. but it does differ from woman to woman.. good luck to you.
EXCELLENT advice healthnut! Honey like healthnut said, you have 72 hours to take it! And I know in Britain it's the same, you do not need parental approval! And NEVER have unprotected sex honey, no matter if he swears up and down that he has no cum, all it takes is 1 sperm and you can get pregnant at ANY TIME of the month, as you can ovulate at different times from different reasons - such as hormones, stress, infections etc. So be careful and good luck! This will take care of it all OK? Also IF you need your hymen in place, I would advise you not to go any further with this OK? As I know that in some cultures they want your hymen intact at marriage! You can have your hymen reattached but that is a questionable surgery! So just be careful honey!