Dear ladies,

 

I strongly suggest you to take abortion pills instead of going through the surgery.. 

 

I mean we made mistake, this is not the best way for amending what we had done wrong.. but we have to carry on

 

I am from Singapore, not every hospital has abortion pills, I could only recall the doctor saying only National University Hospital has it. 

 

I am 25 years old this year, and my pregnancy is about 8 weeks or 9 weeks into it.

 

What to expect: 

  • During this whole process find someone you can trust mentally.. Trust me it’s quite mentally draining.. 
  • Be prepare the pain might last up to 4 hours (during the second pills) 
  • You will keep sh**ting like it’s crazy, you might end up getting so tired you would end up just sitting on the bowl. 
  • During the last contraction trust me you will think it’s your sh*t but it’s actually the blood (I have to say it really felt like a huge piece of sh*t coming out) 
  • **To be honest I thought I sh*t on my pants, but apparently it’s the blood. 
  • You would feel like time is a lot A LOT SLOWER, if you can watch some drama, lie down. Some people prefer siting down, but I prefer lying down 
  • I did feel a little feverish but it subside pretty fast 
  • If you would need me to rate the pain I would say 6/10. (1 - Not painful, 10 - Super painful)
  • What is most difficult for me was enduring it, cause the time passes by so slowly.. 
  • You might have strength to get up but you might not want to do other things
  • I did not have any sign of nauseous, but there are a lot of article I read that have signs of it 
  • I did feel a little feverish but it all subside after the “blood gushing out” 
  • I did have a second gush of blood 

 

What is best to do: 

  • During my first pill I have no cramps or bleed which I am thankful off. I am not sure, but I did read some articles saying it’s normal and not.. (Please ask your doctor if you are not sure) 
  • During the second pill make sure whatever you need is around you (Mine was right beside my bed)
  • Find a place that you are comfortable, like your nest. 
  • Take the second pill the day (STRONGLY SUGGESTED) 
  • You must have a very good rest the night before you taking. 
  • Drink lots of water 
  • Remember to charge your phone fully
  • Please wear pad all the time! 

 

 

What you will need: 

  • Sweets or some other food that could comfort you.
  • Water heat bag (Good to have) 
  • AND REALLY LOTS OF WATER.
  • Tissue
  • A plastic bag for unwanted items 

 

The reason why I wanted to do this or type this out, is to allow people who are inexperienced like me to understand and know what to expect.. or what to do if you are doing this alone when you are at home.. I sincerely hope all of you know that this is what I felt when I was going through, I know my post seem a little like I am joking, but I am not.. I hope you would be more prepared than I was..