A few month ago i had sex with this lad. But it dosent feel right. I don'r like any lads :S Even thought according to my mates there are loads of fit lads. I have told two of my closest friends and both said that it's only me who really knows. But i'm confuised. I think i fancy my mate :/ Help !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 %-) ?
you cant decide who you like. its a hormonal thing in your brain. you like girls then awesome. you like boys than awesome. but its who you are and nobody can change that. :-)
Well,
I am not sure if I can be of any help here. I never noticed this kind affection towards the same sex. The thing that I can tell you is that you can always explore things. And if you didn’t like the sex with this one guy it doesn’t mean that you won’t like it with other one. So my suggestion would be to give boys one more chance before you decide that you will only date girls. In my opinion there is nothing wrong with this as long as you are happy with yourself. Try to talk to your friend about the feeling that you have and see how it goes.
Good luck,
Karel
I am not sure if I can be of any help here. I never noticed this kind affection towards the same sex. The thing that I can tell you is that you can always explore things. And if you didn’t like the sex with this one guy it doesn’t mean that you won’t like it with other one. So my suggestion would be to give boys one more chance before you decide that you will only date girls. In my opinion there is nothing wrong with this as long as you are happy with yourself. Try to talk to your friend about the feeling that you have and see how it goes.
Good luck,
Karel