I didn't know others felt the same way. I'm large breasted, since puberty at age 9. Someone asked if a correlation about flat or inverted nipples. Mine arent. I have never enjoyed it very much but it's gotten way worse. I also breast feed my oldest child, then my mother developed breast cancer. I have always wondered if it was because of 1 of those things or like most said being molested and not remembering. I also wear a bra with a sports bra over it. I sleep in a sports bra as well. It irrarates me so bad even to be brushed by clothing. I can't describe it except like most say, it literally makes me ill and aggravates me so bad! If my husband touches them during intercourse, I'm totally turned off. It makes me feel like I need to wash them asap. Someone mentioned hormones, well that's not my case, I had a hysterectomy very young 27. I don't have any hormones and don't take any artificial ones either. I'm now 40. I do feel bad for my husband and try to endure it at times. But I truly hate it! I've thought of having a breast reduction and hope they cut the nerve where I can't feel them anymore. That's how bad it is. I truly hope someone finds an answer and post it. I sincerely thought it was just me. I may ask my dr if I can get the courage to ask her, lol. Could early puberty be related?
Hi there
You are not alone, there are several women who do not prefer their breasts touched or fondled. Nothing wrong with that. Flat or inverted nipples have nothing to do with it. Inform your husband that you do not like breasts being touched. Your mom having breast cancer has nothing to do with it either. Stop stressing yourself. Breastfeeding an older child is not a concern either. Eat well, sleep well and you will be allright.