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Hello abby_babby_001
Very sorry to hear about you. You are already old enough to talk about these things openly and express your fears. Rest assured not everyone is a molester and you need to evaluate things for yourself. Please be communicative when it comes to bonding new friends and associations. Express your fears, talk with your friends - find out about a new person - most likely your close friends will give you hints.
Most importantly, trust your family. They can be depended at all times. Talk to your mom first - first indirectly and then maybe the entire episode. Trust me, she will understand and offer all help.
Lastly read the first para - you need to trust people. There are good ones and bad ones - luckily bad ones are in minority! Whatever has happened is your past, it is history. Enjoy life!
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I totally agree with aushi176357.
To answer the question, I'm going to look at both the possible emotional effects that a rape or molestation victim may encounter and then I'll discuss the possible legal ramifications.
As a victim of violence and survivor, you may be at a higher risk of becoming promiscuous, developing addictions, fear of trusting others, living with mental illness, and even have your sexuality and possibly gender identity be impacted because one's decision to violate you, Both individual and group counseling can help you cope better with being victimized. As a result, you may find ways to trust others, cope, become happier, love yourself more, and reverse the cycle and become a stronger person
As far as the legal ramifications, your local laws which may include the statute of limitations and the actual definitions and requirements of the specific law can help determine if the person who violated your rights can be interviewed, arrested, and charged with a crime. Additionally, the prosecutor and/or police will need to determine if there's also enough evidence to arrest or to prosecute. Know that the suspect's attorney likely will make an effort to discount your story and blame you.
Being a rape survivor myself, I know that being victimized will likely carry the fear of trusting others and can have a lifelong impact on your life.
There are many resources whether they are online or obtained over the phone that can help people get the support that they need.
I truly wish you the best and hope that you can find a way to move on from that scary event in your past.
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