Hello all I just joined here for some info. I am quite embarrassed about talking bout this so please bear with me...
I have a complicated situation that I have no idea how to start. I am currently a very late bloomer 22yo. I've been going out with my 1st boyfriend for several months and we've decided to go to the next step (obviously 1st time for me for anything of this nature) but I am deathly afraid of becoming pregnant. This point in my life is way too stressful to be introducing that kind of problem into it, but I want to have my first time naturally with no spermicides or anything of that nature.
I've looked up how to tell ovulation but I have no idea, as another problem is that my monthly cycle isn't monthly but annually whenever the heck it decides to show up! Maybe once or twice a year. It never became regular when I started having them @ 16. I've never gone to the doctor for this as the handful of cycles I've had in my life have been horrible and I don't want to make them occur often!! Plus I'm just so leery of the dr.
Do yall have any ideas besides not having sex or using the usual methods? Also if my luck goes as usual and I did get prego is there any natural ways to abort? Thanks for reading this book... LOL. I'm just so nervous about this...
Hi, honey :).
Look, the only way to prevent a pregnancy at 100% is abstinence. Since you took a desicion, thats a huge step, but great for you!!
Sadly, all that "natural" ways to not become pregnant, arent really good at all... I suggest you use condoms, take the pill, or even better, the combination of both.
If you get pregnant, theres any "natural" way, at least not intentionally, that will not hurt you. You can go to a clinic and ask for an abortion pill, or a clinical abortion.
My best advice, use some kind of GOOD birth control method. (No pull out method, no "cycle", temperatura, ovulation, fertility, etc...)
Good luck! xx