I am 13, I have had sex with 2 people. I didn't really know what I was doing either time (I was on medicine that made me motor less) but I was fully aware of what was happening. I have recently noticed that in the past week, I have been getting a brown discharge every day, and every time I go to the restroom. I missed my period this month. I checked my ovulation calendar, and I just so happened to have sex on one of the days I was ovulating. I used a condom with the first boy I had sex with, but not the second. He pulled out, but we kept going even after he climaxed. I don't know if some of his semen was still on his penis when he put it back in me, and I don't know if pre-cum can contain semen. My nipples are darker than usual, I've gained about 7 pounds in the past month, I've gotten dizzy a few times, and my boobs have gotten bigger. The last time I had sex, was on May 24th and I also did it on the 25th with the same person. The days I was ovulating was May 20th-24th. Can someone please tell me if I sound pregnant? And if you think I am, can you please send me more signs and symptoms to pregnancy? I need to know ASAP!!!!!
If you had sex around the 24th of May and now it is June 5th I doubt seriously you would be showing any signs of being pregnant. That doesnt mean you arent..just very unlikely you wold be showing "signs". As for the brown discharge, I have never heard of this being connected with pregnancy. I would HIGHLY suggest you get to a dr and make sure it wasnt anything that has been passed to you.
As for missing your period, there are many reasons this could be happening. All of your complaints do go along with pregnancy, but they could also be linked to other things. You NEED to get a pregnancy test. These are sold over the counter at almost every store. Very easy to get one, but I doubt you would have a definite answer because we are only talking about 10 days or so.
As for condoms...they are NOT 100% safe. They break, tear, and just plain fail. As for the pre cum, and sperm being present after he pulls out and continues after climax, I would have to say a resounding YES. I am quite sure that sperm can and is present dring both of these situations.
I reallly hope you are NOT pregnant. If you arent, the next issue I would tackle if I were you is to ask yourself why you are having sex at 13 in the first place? I am NOT judging you. You are so young, and dont need this stress in your life. Having a child at your age would change your life and your own childhood would be over. Obviously you arent in a stable relationship or there wouldnt be two possibilies. But then again, who is stable at 13? Please stop and enjoy being young. Save yourself and your future by not engaging in sex. You are young and have a full life ahead. If you need to, get some counseling, talk to someone you trust, but figure ot why having sex at 13 is an option you are choosing.
I had a friend who had a child at 13. When she graduated HS, her child was entering kindergarten. Her life was forever changed, and not for the better. Her friends were out at football games, dances, rollerrinks...she was at home alone (yes the father wasnt around).
If you ARE...please get help. Your parent, a trusted family member, a dr...someone who can advise and help you. I hope my email helps..I wish you all the best...