Please help me!! I've tried so many things.
First, try not to worry about it and just enjoy the feelings that you get by touching yourself. Get a mirror and place it between your legs so you can actually see what your doing and where it feels best. Take your time and arouse yourself fully, your body will tell you when things get urgent. Use a bit of lube of some type, nothing scented. There are many different ways to achieve your goals, you will find what works for you in time....be patient!