The glans stings with a simple touch but now the tip doesn't sting as much anymore but touching the sides of it hurts. How do I desensitize it?
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Hey ionotylerisbored, i think if u keep pulling back the foreskin it will eventually get less sensative. Mines is still relly sensitive and trying to clean it is realyyyyyy sore. :-( . Btw i managed to get my foreskin really far down today :-) I couldnt believe it :-))))) I still havent got the entire glands out but im getting nearer :-D Also when i get far down there seems to be a bit a skin thats on the top of my glands at the front stuck to my glands. Whats that???? Also i can even get my foreskin down to the first bit of my glands when im erect now :-) Hopefully ill be able to get my whole glands out soon :-)))))))))))))))
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hi kevin i had the same problem as you did when i was your age i went to the doctor he suggested that i gently stretch the foreskin each day and try and get it further each day it worked,do stop stretching if you have serious discomfort.so i suggest you do that and if does not work go and see the doctor dont be embarrased about it as you wont be the first person to have this problem he may give you oitment or could suggest surgical options.
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I did it by bringing it out in the open and touching it a lot..
One thing I found was that since it is normally moist this makes it sticky to the touch which increases the discomfort immensely when you touch it, or something rubs against it . I figured that drying it out would help a lot. By the time I decided to do this I had already stretched my foreskin so I could pull the tip of it all the way back to the base, near my belly. To help with the drying I figured it would be good to clean any stickiness off of it. I used cotton balls saturated with rubbing alcohol to clean the whole inside of my foreskin, which was now pulled back so it was on the surface of the shaft. Then I gently cleaned the glans, I paid special attention to cleaning behind the glans as smegma likes to build up there. The alcohol feels cold at first then gives a warm and somewhat tingly feeling that's not at all unpleasant.
It may take a while because you can't keep it out like this forever, you do have to put it away to go out in public, and your mother probably would object to you walking around the house like this. But the more time you can devote to this, the sooner it happens.
After I let it dry I could run my fingers, which were also super clean from the alcohol, over it lightly to get it used to being touched. I also found that rubbing it with a piece of soft flannel was a comfortable means of touching it. Of course all this touching made me pretty turned on so the natural progression was to masturbate using the soft flannel. Since I looked forward to that, I kept at it often and it wasn't too long until it was desensitized so that I could masturbate without the flannel using my bare hand on my dry head and shaft.
One thing I found was that since it is normally moist this makes it sticky to the touch which increases the discomfort immensely when you touch it, or something rubs against it . I figured that drying it out would help a lot. By the time I decided to do this I had already stretched my foreskin so I could pull the tip of it all the way back to the base, near my belly. To help with the drying I figured it would be good to clean any stickiness off of it. I used cotton balls saturated with rubbing alcohol to clean the whole inside of my foreskin, which was now pulled back so it was on the surface of the shaft. Then I gently cleaned the glans, I paid special attention to cleaning behind the glans as smegma likes to build up there. The alcohol feels cold at first then gives a warm and somewhat tingly feeling that's not at all unpleasant.
It may take a while because you can't keep it out like this forever, you do have to put it away to go out in public, and your mother probably would object to you walking around the house like this. But the more time you can devote to this, the sooner it happens.
After I let it dry I could run my fingers, which were also super clean from the alcohol, over it lightly to get it used to being touched. I also found that rubbing it with a piece of soft flannel was a comfortable means of touching it. Of course all this touching made me pretty turned on so the natural progression was to masturbate using the soft flannel. Since I looked forward to that, I kept at it often and it wasn't too long until it was desensitized so that I could masturbate without the flannel using my bare hand on my dry head and shaft.
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Hey, i have another question. Im getting to the stage where i can nearly get the foreskin to pull ove the whole glands (Yeyyy) but when i do will it not become stuck?? Im rly worried incase when i do pull my foreskin all the way back completely over the glands itl get stuck and ill get paraphimosis. What r the actual chances of it getting stuck? Cause since ive had tight forskin ( and still do have very tight foreskin) does this not increase the chance of this happening to me :/ Plz post back, thx :-)
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If you have it stretched so you can almost get it back I doubt that it will get stuck back there. Mine used to be tight enough so it hurt if I got an erection when it was back there. Then it wouldn't come forward until the erection went away. If I put it away like that it would be back where it belongs the next time I took it out. The only reason I didn't like that was that my sensitive glans would be rubbing on my underwear until the foreskin rolled back over it, and the rubbing tended to keep the erection going.
Mine was never tight enough to get seriously stuck behind the glans. My mother always pulled it back all the way to wash it at bath time from the day I was born until she turned that job over to me when I was around 6. She made it quite clear that I HAD to do that and made me do it while she watched for a couple more years.
I think you may be scaring yourself with all the stuff you find on the internet. I've never known anyone who got it stuck so they had to go to a doctor to fix it. I grew up with a bunch of guys who played with themselves and each other quite often, and I'm pretty sure if it happened to someone, it would have been the talk of the town, so to speak.
Mine was never tight enough to get seriously stuck behind the glans. My mother always pulled it back all the way to wash it at bath time from the day I was born until she turned that job over to me when I was around 6. She made it quite clear that I HAD to do that and made me do it while she watched for a couple more years.
I think you may be scaring yourself with all the stuff you find on the internet. I've never known anyone who got it stuck so they had to go to a doctor to fix it. I grew up with a bunch of guys who played with themselves and each other quite often, and I'm pretty sure if it happened to someone, it would have been the talk of the town, so to speak.
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hi kevin there is always a chance of the foreskin getting stuck,i would suggest using lubricant if it gets stuck if the lubricant doesnt work this website h as other ways of trying to get the foreskin back other.if it does get stuck remain calm.if you are unable to get it back over then you will have to go to A&E but dont be embarrased as you be suprised on how many people end up in this situation.hope this helps
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Whats a lubricant?? Also if it got stuck then id need to tell my Mum and its to embarising :-(
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Whats a lubricant?? Also if it got stuck then id need to tell my Mum and its to embarising. Id hate to have to go to AandE im to embarrased about stuff like this. I know its not but i just feel that way :'( :'(
(I think i might have accidently posted this twice soz so if theres a guest reply then thats me soz)
(I think i might have accidently posted this twice soz so if theres a guest reply then thats me soz)
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Hi Kevin,
We can't completely rule out the possibility of it getting stuck behind the glans. If you feel your foreskin is still too tight, then hold back a bit and take it more slowly.
If you do get your foreskin trapped behind the glans, you will need to squeeze your glans and pull the foreskin back into place. Would you be able to do this? After a little while swelling would make this impossible and you'll be glad to get to A&E.
But if your gentle and don't force it anywhere you should be ok. You just need to know the procedure just in case.
We can't completely rule out the possibility of it getting stuck behind the glans. If you feel your foreskin is still too tight, then hold back a bit and take it more slowly.
If you do get your foreskin trapped behind the glans, you will need to squeeze your glans and pull the foreskin back into place. Would you be able to do this? After a little while swelling would make this impossible and you'll be glad to get to A&E.
But if your gentle and don't force it anywhere you should be ok. You just need to know the procedure just in case.
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hi kevin lubricant is a substance which helps movement and reduces the friction.the best type would be ky jelly.i understand that it is embarrassing to talk to someone about this face to face.is the foreskin over the head of the penis is this when its erect or not erect and have you tried stretching the foreskin if you have is there any pain and how much pain do you get?
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Hey, I have this weird problem.. I was retracting my foreskin back, it was going well until it reached behind the glans. I noticed that on the right side under my glans has foreskin attached to it which doesn't allow me to pull the foreskin all the way back... what do I do?
Is this bad?
Is this bad?
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Hi can I ask how old you are? If your still an early teenager it is most likely that your foreskin just hasnt detached from your glans yet. If you're over about 16/17 its more likely a skin bridge and in which case you should see a doctor.
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How is moving the foreskin going for you? I saw a lot of good advice in the thread for you--and it's embarrassing if something bad happens to you but trust me, much worse has happened to many more guys so please don't let that stop you from getting medical care. Were you able to get it to slide back?
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Hi Kevin,
I'm also interested in you situation. Can you give us a little update?
I really hope that you are doing ok now and that you have managed to pull your foreskin all the way.
I'm also interested in you situation. Can you give us a little update?
I really hope that you are doing ok now and that you have managed to pull your foreskin all the way.
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