Hi Guest:
The bunched up skin probably indicates that you have frenulum breve. When you pull your foreskin back, does the head of your penis bend down toward the ground? if so, that is an indication of a short frenulum.
It is helpful to retract the foreskin for cleaning. I agree that masturbating with the foreskin up is the best way.
A 13 inch penis is very unusual. There is NO way to reduce its size. You will have to live with it. A girl's vagina is not long enough to take all of it, so you must be careful how much you insert.
Hi BennyT9:
When you leave your foreskin retracted, it starts to cut off blood circulation in your penis and you get fluid build up (called edema). If it gets bad enough, your won't be able to bring your foreskin forward. This condition is called paraphimosis.
It is not a good idea to keep your foreskin retracted for long periods of time.
You can try stretching your foreskin some more so that it is looser and won't cut off blood circulation.
Hi Guest:
If your foreskin is really tight around the base of the head, you probably need to stretch it some more.
I think this is a great post with a lot of useful information.
Hi Pete343:
Men can live all of their lives with a tight non-retractable foreskin. They can penetrate their girlfriends and wives and have children, so it is not absolutely necessary to have a retractable foreskin.
However, most people feel that having a retractable foreskin is better. Here are some directions for stretching:
Some guys have foreskins that have tips that are too narrow to pass back over the penis head. These foreskins may be gently stretched over a period of time to cause them to widen. When your penis is erect, gently pull your foreskin back against the head of the penis. As the head attempts to pass through the foreskin it will stretch the skin a little. Do this every day and in a few weeks or months your foreskin will widen and you will be able to retract your foreskin. Do NOT force retraction.
It works by tissue expansion. Stretching skin induces “mitosis” which is a word that means “division of cells”. New skin cells are formed and the skin expands. The increase in size is permanent. Be patient and let mitosis do its work.
Pete343:
This is a great post that should be an inspiration for everyone with a tight foreskin.
There are, of course, many ways to stretch the foreskin. Stretching puts skin under tension and the tension tells the skin that more skin is needed, which prompts the process of "mitosis", creating more skin cells and more skin. The increase in size by tissue expansion is permanent.
Hi Kay/os Notenoughforme Rogers:
i think that piece of skin is called the frenulum. It is normal and supposed to be there. You can look it up on the Internet.
Do not get it reduced Join a circus Who do you think you are kidding? No 16 yr old has a 13" penis !
Hmm, really? Cuz my dad said he keeps his foreskin retracted since he entered puberty and that he hasn't have any problems ... Btw, I'm 22 and I have the tight skin issue. I have had sex a lot of times but it's still tight and my heat is extra sensitive. I hope I'm not too late to start the loosening of the forseskin :) But I will try none the less ...
I am glad that your father has not had problems keeping his foreskin retracted. But when a tight foreskin is retracted and gets stuck behind the head, that condition is called "paraphimosis". You can read about it on the Internet.
A few men live their entire lives with a non-retractable foreskin. They can masturbate, have penetrative sex, get married, and father children with a foreskin that does not retract. Apparently, you have done that. If you don't make your foreskin retractable, you will still be OK.
However, most men prefer to make their foreskin retractable.
It is NOT healthy to live with a non-retracting foreskin. At best it will stink. At worst it is a risk factor for penile cancer. Anyone with a tight foreskin should see their physician for the best course of action. For around 3/4 conservative measures, usually based on stretching and a steroid cream, will resolve the matter. For the rest a circumcision will fix it.
Im 15 and had fun with my gf didn't had sex but I tried on my first condom and dried sex and after the day it started to hurt
Hi Guest:
The foreskin does not need to be pulled back to wash under it. It is really easy to painlessly clean out your foreskin without retracting it. Here are two ways:
1. Urine is a sterile substance when it leaves the body so it is an excellent washing agent. Pinch the tip of your foreskin shut when you pee. Let the urine fill up your foreskin. You will see your foreskin balloon because of the urine inside. Then release the tip and all of the urine inside your foreskin will come gushing out and clean out whatever is inside. This is best done in the shower as it tends to be messy.
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2. Get a rubber bulb ear syringe from a drug store, pharmacy, or chemist’s shop. These are designed to squirt warm water into ear canals to clean them out. They also work great for cleaning out foreskins. Fill the ear syringe with warm (not hot) water and then insert the tip of the syringe into your foreskin. Then squeeze the bulb and a jet of warm water will squirt into your foreskin and clean out whatever is inside.
Don’t use soap or body wash inside your foreskin because soap dries out the skin oils essential for good health.