I'm 18, and we've been together for awhile. It wasn't until recently that we started getting physical, but there's a huge problem. He can't make me orgasm. I can do it by myself when I masturbate, but he has tried oral and rubbing me down, and I just don't get the same feeling I get when I masturbate. I feel like my clit is too sensitive when he plays with it, and I've tried telling him to do it a lot more gently, but still nothing! His oral sex is amazing. everything he does feels great, but he gets exhausted from trying and I usually have to finish myself off. Now I don't know if I'm doing something wrong or if I masturbated too much in the past ( I used to do it every weekend) or if I'm not arroused enough when we get physical (sometimes I'm very dry and I don't get as wet as when I masturbate). I've even thought that maybe I'm not experiencing anything because I'm a virgin and I have to give my virginity in order to climax, but I'm worried about something being wrong with me! So please, someone help me ):
You'll be fine have you tried showing him what you like ?
Yes, I have. I feel like my clitoris is too sensitive and he rubs it too hard, but even when I guide his hands, nothing happens.
Can u use lube?
use a little lub, and tell him what you want him to do. Maby try masturbating in front of him and let him watch