Alright, I met a very sweet guy.. we started to spend time with each other, like u know what I mean...everything wer great in the beginning until somewhere down the line things changed..we started arguing about silly things and we lost contact.. A few Weeks later I knew something was wrong, I was expecting my monthly period but I never got it..its already been two months since my last.. I don't consider having this child on my own..I am currently single mother of one and it is already hard.. I can't do this, what should I do??
Dear Single N Lost
I know how that feels and with an undesirable pregnancy. You must know your boy friend's usual friends and places that he visited - try getting in touch with people who were his friends or maybe his work place. But first and foremost - think it over, you may need more than your wits to convince this guy to be around you for a second time - consider all possible alternatives [you haven't mentioned whether you have a job or just sit home]
Getting an abortion is easy but traumatic experience for some not to mention psychological issues involved. Good luck
Aushi