I have always liked guys and that always wanted a boyfriend etc. but someone asked me once if I was a lesbian and ever since then I've had doubts on being straight now. I used to masturbate and when I did I would just imagine how good it felt and I watched lesbian porn like once or twice and liked it. Although I've never liked a girl or crushed on her or whatever. But ever since this has happened I cant get my attraction to boys back anymore. Im seeming to look at girls a lot and I'm very paranoid about it. For some reason I cant imagine ever having sex with a guy but now can with a girl but I really don't want too at all. And I'm so scared that I'll never like a boy again. Or never enjoy sex again. This is so scary for me as I've always really liked boys but now I'm obsessing over it and now everything I seem to do feels lesbianish. Im starting to think I was indenial the whole time about liking boys and that I really liked girls. And now what if I can never like a boy again because for some reason I don't want to anymore? but I do but it feels as though I don't:( I mean, im so unlucky with a lot of stuff and this feels like this could just be my luck that I'm so lesbian or bisexual girl when I just want to be straight. I do have an obsessive personality and im always making to be a lesbian instead of trying to make things that I'm straight and its confused me so much now that I don't know where I am. I had depression but I'm kind of out of it and still not attracted to boys anymore:( im starting to think I might be a lesbian or bi. Ehhh please help me out, is there anything I can do or am I a lesbian or bi?
I've been through this! How old are you?
I label myself as bisexual now. In a lot of ways, I prefer guys. In a lot of ways, I prefer girls. I have reasons for both and at this point in my life, I couldn't decide between the two. But I don't personally feel like I have to. When I started feeling this way when I was young, I switched from guys to girls, then it balanced out. Now it just depends on the day and on the person.
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If u r les or Bi, learn to accept it. It's hard but it won't make u into somebody else, you'll still be you! I'm les and I had a hard time when people found out but then I realised that I just didn't care! If u r and peeps find out just keep ure head up!
I am really confused too. I used to like girls a lot, and i thought gay porn was gross, but now I get hard to gay, and girls don't make me hard anymore, but i think some girls are cute. I don't know if I am bi or not it's so confusing!