I last got my period on the 15th of october. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend on the 23rd of october but i assured me that "nothing happened". A few days later i got what was like a very very light period it was more like discharge but lasted for 2 days. In the past week November 1st to 8th I've noticed that my breast are sore all the time and sort of swollen. My nipples are always hard. I'm not hungry at all and then I'm suddenly starving. I'm very tired and lightheaded. I'm having mood swings all the time. I've noticed a lot more discharge than usual and I need to go to the toilet more. I'm under the age of 16 and very very scared. I don't really have anyone to talk to about this and I'm too embarrassed to go to a doctor or chemist because I live in a small town and everyone knows everyone. In the last few days I've been getting increasingly worried and scared about the situation. I feel nervous stressed and I'm shivering and crying a lot. I can't tell the boy involved because he's going through a really hard time at the moment as are my own family who would go insanse if they knew. I'm beginning to feel more sick with worry than anything else and i really need help. Please try not to judge,.
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Ok, honey, the first thing you need to do is take a deep breath and relax. The more stressed you make yourself, the harder this will be to get through. Next, I think you really need to find a way to go buy a home pregnancy test. If your last period started on the 15th, you should be close to starting your next one, so wait until the first day of that period, if it doesn't come, take the test. If it does, you have nothing to worry about! However, if you continue to stress yourself out about this, your period may not come, and you may get a negative test, so you will continue to stress, see the vicious cycle? So, please relax, buy a test, and just wait it out. I know this is scary, and I know buying that test will be very scary, but knowing what is going on will be a relief to you, whatever the outcome. Lastly, if, by chance that test says positive, it will be imperative for you to talk to your parents, sooner rather than later. They can help you make a decision on what to do, whether you decide to keep it or not is your decision, but that baby will need prenatal care as soon as possible. You made the decision to have sex, now you have to be an adult and handle this situation, as scary as it may be. I have faith that everything will work out for you, if you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you! Best of luck,
-C.
-C.
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Not interested in judging---
find local free clinic to go to and be tested for pregnancy or get one of the kits.
Stop sexual contact, at least until you know what is wrong.
We all make mistakes, learn form yours. You are an intelligent young person
who made a misstep on this path we walk. Correct the course and learn
the responsibility you have of taking care of you.
Good Luck, be careful.....
find local free clinic to go to and be tested for pregnancy or get one of the kits.
Stop sexual contact, at least until you know what is wrong.
We all make mistakes, learn form yours. You are an intelligent young person
who made a misstep on this path we walk. Correct the course and learn
the responsibility you have of taking care of you.
Good Luck, be careful.....
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