I had an abortion 1 week ago, i know i can't have intercourse for 3 weeks but can we have oral sex?
Gee, let's think this through...
You've had an abortion, and the doctor says no sex for at least 3 weeks.
That's probably to allow you time to heal, and for the uterus to adjust. You wouldn't want to introduce any bacteria or germs into that area, so intercourse is out.
But, as far as GIVING oral stimulation or manual stimulation to your partner (assumed to be male) why not? But, to have him place his mouth on your genitals would seem to me to be tempting fate. What if he stimulates you to orgasm? What would the contractions likely do?
For safety sake, I would follow your doctor's directions. If you have questions, I would ask your doctor to clarify.
You should be talking with that doctor about birth control after your healing period, as well as asking what forms of sexual expression you might consider now. (But I would wait at least until you get the green light from the doctor...)
You've had an abortion, and the doctor says no sex for at least 3 weeks.
That's probably to allow you time to heal, and for the uterus to adjust. You wouldn't want to introduce any bacteria or germs into that area, so intercourse is out.
But, as far as GIVING oral stimulation or manual stimulation to your partner (assumed to be male) why not? But, to have him place his mouth on your genitals would seem to me to be tempting fate. What if he stimulates you to orgasm? What would the contractions likely do?
For safety sake, I would follow your doctor's directions. If you have questions, I would ask your doctor to clarify.
You should be talking with that doctor about birth control after your healing period, as well as asking what forms of sexual expression you might consider now. (But I would wait at least until you get the green light from the doctor...)