Well find an open minded girl, get alot of lube and just be easy, maybe some dildos that get bigger in sizes to help ease the transition to your size.
I know the feeling of when a over sized guy rushes it, not to fun, tend to hurt alot when they dont take their time.
You gotta know the limit and communicate with the girl on whats deep enough. dont get all excited and just go crazy cause like you said you dont wanna hurt them.
Grab some sex books read up on sex positions and other ways to please a girl too.
Communication is the key and knowing the limit for penatration.
Good luck
I would have suggested that the cowgirl on top position might be a good one, as she controls the depth of penetration.
Also, there are other forms of intercourse (not vaginal, but perhaps more masturbation through body part or breasts) that could be an alternative.
This is the story that most men need to hear: That more penis isn't good for sex or the girls.
It's great that you're sensitive to women's needs and size.
There will be women out there with large or deep vaginal sizes, but it's hart to "pick them" without some actual experience.
If you're going to "shop around" be sure to use protection so that you're not passing around STI...
But try picking up "The Guide for Getting it On" or "The Joy of Sex" for some further tips on positions and alternatives.
Yes, it can be a challenge, but there is an alternative or two if you're patent.
Hello everyone,
I have the same question as jho1188 at the top of this page... I think my penis may be getting too BIG!??!...
FYI, I am currently 15 years old, (HS 10th grader), and I am quite thin, (about 150 pounds), and over 6 feet tall already... (My Mom says that I "grow like a weed"! LOL!)... I have just started working out regularly here in the gym at school and that seems to be adding some muscle where the girls seem to like it... (Ass, arms, chest, and especially my abs!... I showed a girl my abs once because she dared me to, and she all of a sudden got very shy and just smiled at me... I guess that's a good thing, even tho' she wouldn't talk after that...?)... Anyway, I entered puberty a little bit earlier than most of my friends at about age 11... I don't think that I am completely done growing yet either because I still don't have any hair on my chest or abs, and only recently has my voice began to change, (deepen)... And I just last year started to have to wear deodorant...
But anyway, on to my issue; I have taken a ruler and measured my penis a few times already, (from the top of the base at the pubic bone to the tip, as recommended), and I am just over 12 inches long when erect and about 9 inches long when limp... My shaft is just over 3 inches wide when erect, (a little more than 9 inches around... I have come to understand that this is what they refer to as "girth"?), and I'm just under 3 inches in diameter when limp, and my d**k head is a little bit wider than that at all times... I grew quite big quite fast since entering puberty because this never used to be an issue when I was in elementary school... At least I never noticed it as one anyway... I guess I may have been bigger than most other kids throughout my childhood, but IDK, I never saw any other guys' penis until in my HS gym locker room, so I really have no idea...
Anyway, does anyone think that I am growing TOO big for my age?... I have noticed that I am now larger than most everyone else in the locker room at school, and most of the guys tend to stare at me and just giggle or even talk under their breath when they see me... It's VERY uncomfortable and embarrassing for me!!...
I also have trouble finding clothes, (pants), that are "loose" enough so as to not show my "package" too much when I am in school or out in public... (I don't like wearing underwear either... Too restrictive!... I've tried a few different styles including boxers, but they are just too uncomfortable for me to wear!)... Thankfully tho', I can usually manage to hide my junk fairly well for the most part by wearing long shirts and such, but since my limp d**k never seems to get much smaller than 9 inches long and 2.5 inches diameter, and my balls are also very large, (except for their pinkish color, sometimes they even look like 2 avocados hanging there to me!), needless to say, it is VERY difficult to conceal my stuff at ALL times!... (Especially when I get those stupid "random, seemingly uncontrollable erections" which happen WAY too often for comfort! lol!... No shirt I have can totally hide those, unfortunately!)...
On the same note of my problem in the locker room at school, I have also noticed that even in the hallways and stuff a lot of kids tend to stare at me, (especially the girls), and either try to hide their laughs or else again talk under their breaths when I'm around... This is VERY annoying to me, but I guess there's not much I can do about it except just "grin and bear it" as they say!...
Anyway, B4 I ramble on too much more here, can anyone please tell me if I am 4 sure growing too big already, or am I fine for my age and I just shouldn't worry about it?... Also please tell me if U think that I should go to the doctor and maybe get something to prevent me from growing any bigger in the next few years?... Because I really don't think that I NEED to get any bigger!...
BTW, I am still a complete virgin too, (never even touched or kissed a girl B4!... I know, laughable at my age!), because I am worried that if I ever do get laid that the girl will just laugh at me as soon as I get undressed in front of her!... So, I just masturbate pretty much every day to every few days... (I have to use both hands at the same time and use LOTS of lube to fully satisfy myself... It's a good thing my hands are also really large!)... Although I hate that it takes me usually about a half an hour to cum now on average, (sometimes as long as an hour or more depending on how turned on I am), because when I first entered puberty I could usually cum within just a few minutes, so I wish I could still do that because I don't have time for my homework sometimes because it now takes me so damn long to actually ejaculate!... I think I have a few smaller "orgasms" before the actual ejaculation, but they don't bring anything but lots of "pre-cum"...
When I finally DO cum I usually have really big loads of cum that normally shoot out anywhere from 4 to 6 feet, (average ~5 feet), (sometimes more like ~8 feet, sometimes a little less, like ~3 feet), with each of usually about 10 to 12 squirts with every ejaculation... I don't know if that's "normal" either, but it sure feels awesome every time I jerk myself off, so I'll probably keep doing it regularly, regardless of what anyone says!!...
I think I'm pretty much normal for my age in all aspects including hardness, (like a ROCK!!), "erection angle" of about 45 degrees UP past straight out when fully hard with a very slight curve upwards towards the end of my penis, and I'm usually able to get another erection within just about 5 minutes or so of my last ejaculation, (even though the 2nd time I cum it isn't quite as many spurts of cum as the 1st... Maybe only about 6-8 spurts or so instead of the usual 10-12... This also varies even more if I am tired or stressed about a test or something, but still OK, I think because it is always back to the average 10-12 spurts after a day or 2 of rest)...
OKAY, so please, Please, PLEASE inform me if I am going to be OK with all of this when I fully mature... I need some advice and REAL assurance that I'm going to be OK for real, actual SEX later in life IF I ever get to have a chance at it with a real girl instead of just my hands!... (lol!)... But really tho', I don't think that my insecurities about SEX with a real girl are very funny!... Please help if you know about what I'm talking about here!... I definitely don't want to be alone my whole life, because I am a really good-hearted and funny guy who people really like once they get to know my sweet personality!... Anyway, I will shut up now because I'm getting off of the subject here slightly, so please advise if U can!...
Oh, and one last thing I almost forgot to mention is that I am fully circumcised from what I have come to see and read about, if that matters at all to how big UR supposed to get during puberty... Sorry for such a long "essay" here, but I figured the more info I put here, the more accurate any answers will be!? (Hopefully!)... ANY info as to where I stand would be GREATLY appreciated!...
THX!
Worried.
Worried,
You may be a bit larger than the average kid...and you might have developed a bit earlier than your friends....
but the fact that you note you don't have chest hair doesn't enter into it, unless your dad or brothers have developed it...then you might expect that you will. Some men don't get chest hair.
Second, it's entirely possible that some jealous guys have talked about your development or spread the word how large you seem. Ignor it.
Most of the looks you're getting in the hallway are typical high school flirting and looking. That won't change, and it makes no difference whether they do or do not know what you're sporting.
Third, there is NO way of reducing the size of your package. You might consider wearing pants that are larger, or more loose...and you could consider wearing boxer briefs instead of jockey shorts.... or a combination of a jockstrap supporter and boxer briefs to give you more room to obscure your package.
Fourth, relax some. You can speak with your doctor about this on your next appointment, but don't loose any sleep over it right now.
the fact that you are working out and concerned with the development of the rest of your body is good...just don't go overboard, ok?
You're normal. No matter what your measurements are.
OK, thanks Kevin for the reassurance!... I'm glad that I'm doing just fine in my development then!...
The chest hair thing def. doesn't bother me because I actually like the way I look without it, especially since my chest and abs are developing quite nicely now that I started working out!... Don't worry tho', I def. DON'T want to become one of those "body builder" types that you see in the mags, (they are quite disgusting looking I think, what with all of those veins popping out all over and such!... YUCK!), I only want to become slightly less "skinny" and become more "athletic" looking, if you know what I mean!... (Even tho' I'm not really interested in playing any sports per-se', I just want to gain some simple muscle definition... Which is what I'm already noticing.)
I will continue to try and find pants that give me more room for my stuff, but like I said, I have already tried all of the underwear combos out there that I can find and I just don't find ANY of them to be all that comfortable for me... So, I just "go commando" as it's called... That's just fine with me!... I really don't mind...
Anyway, thanks for the reply, I really appreciate it!... Hopefully more people will chime in here also about this... I'd like to get some honest GIRLS opinions also, so please don't be shy if you have anything to tell me... I have a very open mind to comments and/or criticism!...
Thanks again!
Worried... (Although maybe not as much now... ?)
I am 15 also and I just love the way you are typing......I know you'er not lying because you are sounding really scared and no 15 year old would type something that long for a joke........As I said i am 15 also and my penis is just normal and would dream of having something that Big but no just a normal one......You sound like a truly amazing person that is just scared but i don't see why every 15 year old in the world wants what you got and yes it is a little bigger then normal 15 year old's it's not Over sized or anything, every guys Penis fits for there body size and your just a little bigger..........I have a 8 Inch one so you are not that over sized...Like i said it would be my dream to have one just a little bigger and wider.........Have you thought about having sex with men? Gay and Bi men are more likely to take larger penises then Women and just love then more and it would be easier to find someone to have sex with, And ween he is sucking on it you would not be able to tell it is a man it would feel just like a woman!!! And i Have just one more thing to ask HOW? Did you do anything to your penis that could have got any bigger like exercise to it or Meds? Best of luck from a fellow 15 year old who is really amazed and thinks that this person sounds like a truly amazing person nice and friendly your Friend Ben.....
Hi Ben,
Don't worry, you are quite normal too, (maybe even a little bit bigger than average from what I've noticed in the gym locker room, the showers, and at public urinals), so you're just fine!... Besides, I've always heard many girls say that their "ideal sized guy" is someone who is 7.5-8" or more, and that a guy really can't be "TOO big" 'cuz it's "all in how they use it", so they say, so I guess we're both just fine as we are!...
Anyway, now that I am over 16 and in my Junior year of HS I have become much more comfortable with myself and have learned to deal with what I have... Most people that know me or have seen me just (jokingly) say that I should become a "porn star" or something, but I def. DON'T want to do that because of all of the STD's out there!!... I'd much rather just find one girl who loves me as I am and keep it all to myself (and her) instead of being in videos or whatever!... There's a few girls at school who seem to really like me, but since I am still very shy when talking to them I don't really know what to do with any of them in order to make anyone my GF... Oh well, I'm sure when it's supposed to happen it will, but I'm STILL a virgin, and even though I get made fun of a lot for that fact I want to find the right girl to do it with before I just "give it up" to the first sl*t that asks me!!... (And there sure are a lot of THOSE at my school!! LMAO!)
BTW, your "suggestion" of having sex with guys is of NO interest to me because I'm definitely NOT gay, (it's OK if YOU are, but it's just not for me), so I won't be going that way; I'm just gonna wait until I hook up with the right girl and then all will be good... I'm in no rush really because I believe in True Love so I am a VERY patient guy!...
And about your question about HOW I became so relatively big... IDK, I just kind of developed that way, no special exercises and DEFINITELY NO "MEDS" of any kind like those stupid "penis enlargement pills" that you always see ads for in the back of the porn mags.!!... Myself, I would NEVER consider taking any of those pills, (even if I needed them, which I def. don't), because I've done research on and read about those things being potentially VERY DANGEROUS for your health, possibly even causing complete impotence later in life or even heart attacks and such, or at the very least just simply not doing ANYTHING yet still costing you hundreds of dollars!!... They are a complete SCAM as far as I've found out, so def. DON'T EVER consider taking anything like that!!... As far as I can see there's nothing that anyone can really do to effectively, permanently, and safely increase the natural size of your penis, so you should just be happy with what God gave you!... I have learned to live with mine finally, so you should too!... Besides, I think 8" is pretty good for being 15 years old... Like I said, probably even slightly above average so you're just fine.
Thx for the reply to my post even though I had forgotten about it already!... I just wish I had gotten more GIRLS to chime in with their opinions too, but oh well, I'm not so "worried" about this topic anymore! :)
Well best of luck!!!!
I call BS on jho1188. Why? Simple the biggest human penis on record is 13.5 inches in length. So either you should go out and claim your world record or you are just talking BS, which if you ask me is far more likely
13.5 inches is the biggest on RECORD. There are people out there who don't want to be known for that. They don't want the publicity or the attention. Pretty much for the same reason as these guys. They find it embarrassing and just want to live a more normal life.