Stop being hard on her. She's in abusive relationship something's r outta her control on that relationship. And some people birth control just doesn't work on. I'm sure she feel terrible about it as is. Stop making it worse for her. If she's thinks it's better to not bring the child in the world respect that decision and be happy she refuses to make us pay for her welfare
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This is the most sensible thing I've read. First, as stated above passing judgment isn't cool. I'm aware we all have opinions but neither of us has a heaven or hell to place anyone in so who are we to pass judgment? No one. I know I'm over a year late but I had a bad dream last night and for some reason this populated when I searched google.
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It's not as "easy" as you think. I'm 18 and about to go on my fifth abortion. When you're with someone that's emotionally and/or physically abusive, it's hard to have a child. I myself have never been able to have my kids because my boyfriend was over 18 and they wouldn't have a father if I had them. Birth control pills are easy to forget, the implant I've seen left a huge scar where implanted on multiple girls, and the mirena I've heard has gotten stuck in many people and as a result, they've had to undergo multiple surgeries to remove it. What I suggest to future women and girls, is to talk with your doctor(one you feel complete safety with that you trust).
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Why would you feel bad? I mean if it isnt a life then its like having your appendix out. If it is a life then dont kill the baby.
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sadly if you pass judgement on your BEST friend...we can only imagine what type of person you are! Seeing that you aren't in this girl's shoes nor were you in your "best friend's, you wouldn't know what they went through. Learn to stop be ignorant and jusgemet since you happen to be a mother of three beautiful babies. We wouldn't want them to grow up in the world with the same bias attitude...
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Just put the baby up for adoption and then DONT HAVE SEX UNTILL YOURE MARRIED TO THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE!!!! YOU WOULDNT HAVE HAD A SINGLE ABORTION IF YOUD HAVE JUST DONE THAT!!!!!
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As far as safe, after that many it shouldn't make much difference to your personal physical health, but I am no medical professional. I must say however, to have that many abortions is irresponsible and unconscionable. another relationship with another man is the last thing you need. Having an abortion is something you only want to do one time if ever and only in an emergency. Thankfully, a woman can get a safe clean abortion. When you use abortion in place of birth control, I question your fitness to raise the children you have, if any. I would personally recommend you be sterilized
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I agree to all of you who insulted her shame on you. Abortion obviously isn't an easy thing and who are you people to even judge her not knowing her. Everyone has their reasons and she needs support not judgment so shame on all of you again knowing how emotional it is. Hunny don't listen to them I've had 5 abortions and 1 delivery and you Un decent people can say what you like but don't judge if you don't know, it will weaken your womb but don't let them scare you talk to your doctor so he can reassure you have kids in the future is okay for you .
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That's disgusting. Use bc & a condom and spermicide. And go to church. I don't even believe in one and you're going on ur 6th. Just to get ur tubes tied. Obviously don't want or deserve kids. You're adult enough to have sex, then take care of the kid or don't have sex. It's really pretty simple.
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I completely understand how scared you are! I am in your SAME situation, I have my 5th abortion schedule for next week and I'm 6 1/2 weeks, scared to the death of me. God knows my decision and even though people pass judgment, I try to block it. I can't even tell you don't be scared because I am ... and honestly we will never know the true consequences for this 5th decision. Best of luck to you
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Butterflycolorado listen don't come on here talking about a lady that's asking for help and you have the cheek to say somthing like this no wonder why you've only had one who would want a baby from some one as cold as you god beds her for her word for she will need forgiving at the gates of heaven.
But darling you should be fine I'm having another one and I'm scared as hell I really want this one but due to family and my mental state I can't so if you know and it has to come from you that this is the right thing for you or any one going through this then do it you can't bring a life in to this world without knowing you can love and look after yourself first xxxx
But darling you should be fine I'm having another one and I'm scared as hell I really want this one but due to family and my mental state I can't so if you know and it has to come from you that this is the right thing for you or any one going through this then do it you can't bring a life in to this world without knowing you can love and look after yourself first xxxx
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And it's sad that your some one with words like that people like you who don't need to be on sites like this
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Right if you don't like her decision then why even post anything? No one wants to hear it there are so many people you couldn't even imagine going through this same thing for so many different reasons you obviously can't even imagine. Those people who are actually going through it need some understanding advice. Not how could you BS.
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