I am 14 years oldd and I want to have sex but I am nervous. There's all these myth's and things. I trust my partner very much and I know he wouldn't hurt me, but he's alot older than me. We have known each other for years . I probly shouldn't talk about but when the one you love is older than you. You can't talk about it to your family or friends. So, I guess my question is, is should I have sex with him. I am very confused, any sugguestions. ( sorry if I spelled any words wrong)
Hey, there is no pressure if you want to or not you have to feel ready In urself and don't think I he is older than me he has sexual needs and he will dump me if I don't sleep with him! At the end of the day if your not ready and he can't wait ten he isn't the one for you. Your young don't be fooled by an older guy. Be smart! Xx
Hi Karen,
How much older is he? What are some of the myths you're hearing?
Just be aware that having sex will change your relationship. It will also change you.
Whatever you decide to do, just be safe. Don't ever feel pressured to do something you don't want to do. If he tell you something like "you will if you love me" stop.
Always use protection. You really can get pregnant the first time.
He's alot older than me, but i dont want to say because he could go to jail. Some of the myths that I hear is that is some people, when they have sex for the first time they could bleed or either your butt hole can ripe, ect. Thats another reason why I am so nervous, KAREN.
Karen,
Yes, you can bleed when having sex. The first time and even later. Your hymen can tear as well.
If he's as old as you are saying, think twice. Even though you may say it's OK to have sex, it is not. It is called "statutory rape."
You are NOT old enough to say "yes."
Yes, you can bleed when having sex. The first time and even later. Your hymen can tear as well.
If he's as old as you are saying, think twice. Even though you may say it's OK to have sex, it is not. It is called "statutory rape."
You are NOT old enough to say "yes."