no blood, not so tight and yet she said she is a virgin at the 1st time we had sex.. do i have to believe on her?
No you don't have to believe her, but if you two are in a committed relationship and you love each other, then you must trust what she says. There doesn't have to be blood when virginity is taken, ALL women don't bleed the first time. Also about her being "not so tight" doesn't mean much either. In order for a women to get slightly loose in the vaginal area, she would have had to have a few baby's or had to have a lot of sexual intercourse.
If you two are in a casual relationship with benefits, it's not your place to put a label on her or to really even be concerned.
If you two are in a casual relationship with benefits, it's not your place to put a label on her or to really even be concerned.
I completely disagree with you bbfeet9... just after a couple times of sex I wasn't tight at all. I had to train myself to be tight. And took like a year. so just cuz a girl isn't tight doesn't mean she's not a virgin. however, most girls are really really tight their first time doing anything sexual cuz they're so scared all their muscles tighten up. so If you haven't done very much sexual stuff with her and just went for it, then she should have been pretty tight the first time. Unless your penis is small. LOL jk