My husband seems to have no sex drive, he is always saying if I get it hard he can have sex, but he says it just doesnt get hard anymore. I rememebr when he materbated all the time and had sex with me, what has happened to him and why? :-(
It isn't his age. I'm 51 and hot to trot. My problem is getting it down. ;-)
His problem is commonly referred to as ED (erectile dysfunction) which is really a kind of catch-all term for "can't get it up." In other words, it has a variety of different etiologies and, consequently, a variety of treatments. It could be the result of an enlarged prostate, a bike-riding injury or other urinary system trauma, or a psychological problem. The best place to start out is a urologist's office. If he can rule out or effectively treat any underlying physical cause, then you should move on to the sex therapist.
His problem is commonly referred to as ED (erectile dysfunction) which is really a kind of catch-all term for "can't get it up." In other words, it has a variety of different etiologies and, consequently, a variety of treatments. It could be the result of an enlarged prostate, a bike-riding injury or other urinary system trauma, or a psychological problem. The best place to start out is a urologist's office. If he can rule out or effectively treat any underlying physical cause, then you should move on to the sex therapist.