It is so annoying having strict parents

My parents use to be strict when i was 10 i couldnt leave the street or anything. But computer was set up down stairs other then in my room but mabey nearing the end of 11 they started working alot more none stop going to flea markerts and yardsakes to make some cash. and they came way less strict now im 13 and i could go out at around 10am and not come back in into 11PM cause thats when i go to sleep.

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I would just confront my parents and tell them to stop treating me like a baby. or atleast to get rid of some of the rules.

dude just tell them you don't want them to force you to marry someone let them know that you want more time. This girl that you are suppose to marry see how she feel and at least get to know her maybe you actually will like her i know parents can be though but just talk to them you should try your mom first about the marriage thing because since shes a female and your mother she wants you to be happy so if you talk to her maybe she can convince your father about the marriage. plus ti wouldn't hut to go out and get a actual job i know you don't want to let them down but right now you have got to think about your self.

My parents are really strict but I'm disrespectful sometimes but they punish me by shoving and cussing

Actually i can't think of any other mom being stricter than mine..she is so partial...she has made my brother the ruler of our house who is 8 yrs old..i am 14 years old but my parents treat me like a prisoner..our maid is treated far well than me..my mom has money to buy stupid costly toys for my brother but when i ask for an important book ,she asks me to borrow one from my friends..she scolds me when i talk to my friends for more than 2 mins..she hates it if i call my friends to my home..when i sit near the computer or T.V ,she asks me to utilize the time on something creative..and much more discrimination arises between me and my brothers and i am much depressed by these..i experimented with so many solutions like to fight with them,to adjust with them,to stay happy with this and even commit suicide but none of them worked..and finally i got my solution :-IGNORE THEM..PLEASE REPLY.

hello,i think my parents are the most strict parents in this world specially my mother..she has turned my life hell..she creates too much trouble for me everyday..she creates discrimination between my bro and me,she does not allow me to talk with my freind for more than 2 mins,she cannot resist me sitting near the computer or T.V ,she can buy costly toys for my bro but when i ask for something important,she would just ignore,she has problem if i cook,she has problem if my friends visit our home,she has problem with my every move...i am totally depressed with this so i experimented with so many solutions like to fight with them,to adjust with them,to wait till i hv my own job and even commit suicide but none of them worked..finally i got my solution to 'IGNORE THEM' but its still not working properly..

i am currently on the run. My papi is also a wealthy Indian business man. i fear for my life everyday. but you need to stay strong. i feel for your situation. i know some people that can help. Meet me at the Toronto Cafe in Canada at dawn. i will help you. Bueno suete mi amigo.

my parents are very STRICT! they dont let me go anywhere or do anything, yes i smoke pot but i do it for a reason . i dont do it to fit in or to make myself look cool. i do it because my parents making my head explode and plus pot makes me not worry about anything. it doesnt kiil you or harm your life. its a natural plant!!

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fosho I feel ya my mom doesn't let me hangout with my friends. I mean my friends invited me to go eat n my mom said no because she wants to take me everywhere and doesn't let me ride around with friends. im 17 n I hardly go out bc of my parents, they don't let me live a teenage life. ya kno

You're a women and with your own family now, and you're unable to live a happy marriage? AND you still get spanked?? I think thats highly unfair and just plain rediculous.

Yes! I completely agree. I smoke pot as well but like you said, its not to look "cool" or because everyone else is doing it. Its literally a stress killer for me. I too have strict parents.

I am so frustrated with life right now. I AM A JUNIOR IN HIGH SCHOOL!!!!!! AND I STILL HAVEN'T HAD MY FIRST KISS, HAVEN'T GONE TO A HIGH SCHOOL PARTY, SLEPT OVER A FRIENDS HOUSE, NOTHING- all because my mom treats me like a middle schooler. She is not an understanding person so I don't know how the heck I'm supposed to talk to her. It's a hassle to do anything really because she is constantly looking over my shoulder. I think I am at a point in my life where I should be making my own choices and learning from my mistakes. Trust me when I say I have done nothing to lose her trust. I get good grades in school, help around the house, I'm a good kid. (drug free n all that) I get in trouble for the stupidest c**p too. Like lets say I leave a bottle of water in my room or something well she gets really mad for that. When I was in 8th grade and in freshman year she would take my phone EVERY. SINGLE. NIGHT. She also did it during the summer and it's so freaking annoying!!! I understand that she wants me to be safe because there are so many bad things out there but she also needs to know that she is not going to be with me every step of the way and I need to learn to make my own choices and learn from them too. I can't go over a friends house (can't be a guy) unless she meets them and the parents and even then she sometimes won't let me. Let me just say this I STILL HAVEN'T BEEN OVER MY BEST FRIENDS HOUSE AND WE'VE BEEN FRIENDS SINCE FRESHMAN YEAR AND MY MOM HAS MET HER MOM. I'm missing out on my high school years and I'm afraid I'm lacking social skills LOL. She gets mad at me for anything and I can't sneak out to hangout or anything and she HAS to know my phone's password. It just sucks that I can't even talk to her about my personal life because she makes things worse than they already are. I haven't even had a boyfriend because I don't even bother since she doesn't let me do anything or go anywhere- I just don't see a point in it. But recently I've been talking to this guy and it's so different but I can't tell her anything about him because she'll flip and there's no point any way. But I really want to go out with him and hangout you know I don't wanna lose him because I'm afraid I will never find someone like him and my moms just ruining it. As usual. If I ask to go the movies she doesn't let me get off the car without her seeing my friend first and I definitely can't go anywhere with my friends who have a car because she doesn't let me. And recently she has been complaining about me always being home on my phone and stuff BUT SHE DOESN'T LET ME GO ANYWHERE? I'm actually scared of my mom. I hate asking her for something or like asking her to hang out because of the way she'll react. I'm growing up and time isn't getting any slower. DOES IT GET BETTER??? I REALLY DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. Sincerely, a very stressed teen in Miami.

Hey I'm 14 and my dads cool but my mom is always in my face, she won't let me talk like a normal person would, she say I have a lot of freedom compared to her but this is a new generation. She doesn't care what I have to say and won't let me go to other ppls houses. I'm not allowed to hang out with boys but my sister is even though we're the same age. I srsly can't take it anymore

This is pretty much me too! I'm 15 and I'm in a v similar situation so I definitely feel. except my mom is the strict one and my dad doesn't give a sh*t. It really really really frikkin sucks because my bf and my friends will get mad at me for being a "flaky person" when it's honestly just due to my mom 99.999% of the time bc she and my dad can't come to an agreement about anything. It's even created huge problems in my relationship with my bf because he feels like I don't care and that I'm untrustworthy (which is totally not the case.) My mom won't even let me talk if we're having a conversation and it sounds like I'm gonna disagree with her. And she wants me to involve my dad in as little of my life as possible basically. She hates how lax he is about things, and she says I need to be taught so many lessons and I do everything wrong when in truth I'm basically just doing the normal things that everyone else my age does and doing what seems to make sense. I don't even blatantly break rules most of the time. Usually she doesn't make things clear and then punishes me out of nowhere. She treats me like she's totally superior and doesn't care about being my friend or listening to my point of view on anything. She complicates my life in ways I didn't even think we're possible and I just hate it more than anything in the world. I know that my mom loves me and my parents don't mean to create this chaotic and unstable upbringing for me but if I become a parent I can definitely say that I've been show a very clear picture of what NOT to do.