I'm 18. He talked me into it on the 15th of August. It was my first time, and he didn't even finish. We were protected, and he said he checked the condom after and it still looked okay. We stopped after a while because it hurt so bad. He didn't even enter all the way. I didn't bleed, but I took a shower after. he said he was still pretty dry, and he's confident I'm not pregnant, but I haven't had my period since a couple weeks before that day and I'm paranoid out of my mind. I have had absolutely no symptoms of pregnancy but I know every woman is different.
I used to do at-home workouts but all this worry eventually caused me to stop. I understand no contraceptive is 100% accurate. What are the chances I may be pregnant? It's almost been 8 weeks now.
Also, he's not worried because he said his sister missed her periods until 3 months after her first time. (I know, weird thing for him to know)
The good thing was that you were protected - good choice! so a good fitting condom - without ejaculate is about 98 - 99% effective, with ejaculate is about 95 - 98% effective. So you are FINE! With the workouts you might be doing too much for your body, so it shuts down what it doesn't need to survive - your period - so just relax it should come on! Your brain can get your body SO riled up it actually believes it's pregnant so you stop your period - it's called hysterical pregnancy - so IF it doesn't come on you will need a transvaginal ultrasound to find out if you have ovarian cysts! It ALL depends on when you first started menstruating etc. Our bodies are finely tuned complex machines, when something is out of whack EVERYTHING out of whack! So relax and you will be fine OK!? Also in the future - if you decide to do it again - NEVER let someone "talk you into it" IF you don't want to you DON'T and IF it's against what you believe, the sex will be painful as your will be dry and tense! Also have him pull out right before he ejaculates - and have him ejaculate into the condom - this way it keeps any chance of pregnancy down to less than 1%! IF you have any other questions please let me know OK? Good luck honey!
Thank you so much! I can't tell you how much this has calmed me down. Thank you! Because of all the stress be gone through since August, I can gladly say I won't be doing anything like THAT again. I live with Social Anxiety Disorder so it's kind of hard for me to resist instant people (except alcohol and drugs! Those are always a firm "no") but no sex for me until I'm married. =) again, thank you!!
My period returned. All is well once again =)