So, two weeks ago (May 12) I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend. I know that was a stupid move, and you shouldn't yell at me for it. The date we had sex was about 14 days after my period ended(April 28). Since Thursday last week - also the day that I was supposed to get my period - I've been feeling like c**p. Here is a list of things that I've been feeling;
-Sick to my stomach-Crampy-Sore lower back-Frequent urination-Tender/sensitive breasts-Sudden dislike of my favorite food (Which is Pasta ^_^)-Weird cravings (Such as Peanut Butter/Nutella on Pizza)-Having trouble pooping regularly.
I've been feeling/having those symptoms for about a week straight. I don't know if I'm pregnant or not, but I did my research and I do sound like I'm pregnant.
I talked to my boyfriend about it, and he had gotten me a test the day after I was supposed to get my period, and it came out negative. On Monday or Tuesday last week, there was a bit of blood, but from then on it was a really light spotting, and the full blood only lasted for a day.
I honestly just can't. Like, my boyfriend - bless his soul - has told me over and over that if I am, he would prefer me to get an abortion, but he wants kids of his own. He told me that if I decided to keep it, he'd stay - so long as my mom & his mom don't kill him - and that he would help me with the baby. As for my mom...we've talked about the possibility of a teen pregnancy since I was 13, and she told me she'd support me in any decision I made...but that's always easier said than done. She knows that I'm sexually active and that I do fool around, yes, but she doesn't know that I've gone all the way. She wants me to wait until it's special..
If I am, what do I do? How would I tell my mom/family? I really don't want her to hate me and I'm terrified of her being disappointed in me. But please, if you can, give me some advice. I really need it, and I'm not one to ask for help. I'm just alone and scared, I can't tell my friend because I don't know how she'll react, and I doubt she'd believe me. I have no one to talk to except J-a teen mom I'm close with- and my boyfriend.