Hey I'm 19 and since I was about 13 or 14 I've been noticing things I liked about men and I'm very confused as to what this means because I think I'm gay but I am not sure
Do you also have thoughts about girls/females? Are these thoughts arousing to you?
Being gay is a choice, stand tall if that is what you choose, there is nothing to be ashamed of and nobody is here saying that is the wrong choice. Teens and young 20's is a time of getting to know who you are in every way including sexual preference so experiementation is going to happen as well mentally and perhaps physically.
Hope this helps
No I only have thoughts about males
I am no professional here but I think until you act on these thoughts/fantasies you are bi with tendencies more toward male. Are you nervous, scared or shy about being with a male partner? Because, I think that when you found the 'right one' you wouldn't feel that way as it usually works out with all human companionship strangely enough.
Remember, be strong and be proud.