Im 15 years old and I've made some stupid mistakes. When i was 13 i thought it was pleasurable to stroke my vagina with a vibrating toothbrush. I stopped after realizing what it had done. Now one of my vagina lips sticks out, and i have an off period, and discharge constantly. Im so self concious about it! and don't know what to do. I dont want to talk to a doctor about it, but i need help ergent. Also, i have a boyfriend and if he fingered me he would obviously notice the size difference and it would be very awkward.
and don't say they don't care, because he will. and i dont want something going around saying i have a stretched out vagg!?!?!! i need help!
and don't say they don't care, because he will. and i dont want something going around saying i have a stretched out vagg!?!?!! i need help!
please, i dont know what to do with myself.
does anyone have the same problem?
know what to do?
can you shrink it, haha?!?
anything?
does anyone have the same problem?
know what to do?
can you shrink it, haha?!?
anything?
First of all, masturbating with a tooth brush or any vibrating object WILL NOT change the shape of your vagina. When people are generally going through puberty there vagina changes in the way that it looks and the lips often grow bigger. As i said before nothing you have done to your vagina will change the size of your lips.
It is very important for you to know MOST people have different size lips, the same as most of us have one brest bigger than the other. I am 18 and i have large lips which i hated horribly since i was 13, and the same as you, i wrote on message boards frantically looking for an answer. You are not a freak there will be many other girls at school like you but are also to embarassed to speak about it.
Talking from experience, guys dont really mind lips that are a bit bigger. You'll be lucky if they pay that much attention! The lips arnt what they get the pleasure out off, and they never seem to concerned. And to be honest- dont go having sex with someone who is gonna talk bad about you after! Having said that, It worried me constantly when i was a virgin, but i found some one i was comfortable with and it was fine.
I have actually been given surgery on the NHS (UK hospital service) to reduce the size of my labia, as they cause me discomfort during sex and wearing tight clothing. Depending on the size of your labia, and how much discomfort they cause you, it might be worth going to your doctor. I promise this is nothing to be embarassed about at all- they have seen everything (and worse) before! they may say you have nothing to worry about or he may say you could have a simple operation to correct it. But its important you grow first. You are still only 15 and havent finished growing, you must let your body develop fully. By all means go to the docotor now, but surgery would be unadvisable before your atleast 16/17.
I hope you can get your problem sorted because if you suffered half as much as i did it can make your life a misery. Dont be scared to go the doctor. I wish I had sooner.
Goodluck x
It is very important for you to know MOST people have different size lips, the same as most of us have one brest bigger than the other. I am 18 and i have large lips which i hated horribly since i was 13, and the same as you, i wrote on message boards frantically looking for an answer. You are not a freak there will be many other girls at school like you but are also to embarassed to speak about it.
Talking from experience, guys dont really mind lips that are a bit bigger. You'll be lucky if they pay that much attention! The lips arnt what they get the pleasure out off, and they never seem to concerned. And to be honest- dont go having sex with someone who is gonna talk bad about you after! Having said that, It worried me constantly when i was a virgin, but i found some one i was comfortable with and it was fine.
I have actually been given surgery on the NHS (UK hospital service) to reduce the size of my labia, as they cause me discomfort during sex and wearing tight clothing. Depending on the size of your labia, and how much discomfort they cause you, it might be worth going to your doctor. I promise this is nothing to be embarassed about at all- they have seen everything (and worse) before! they may say you have nothing to worry about or he may say you could have a simple operation to correct it. But its important you grow first. You are still only 15 and havent finished growing, you must let your body develop fully. By all means go to the docotor now, but surgery would be unadvisable before your atleast 16/17.
I hope you can get your problem sorted because if you suffered half as much as i did it can make your life a misery. Dont be scared to go the doctor. I wish I had sooner.
Goodluck x