Hi, I'm a 19yr old male, I'm physically fit and dont have much trouble attracting women, but I do have confidence issues because of my uncircumcised penis. I've been having trouble going into relationships because of my fear that girls find this unattractive. Now, the questions that I had are: Does it matter to a woman at all if a guy is uncircumcised? Should I get circumcised?(I wouldnt mind doing so if this is preferable to the significant other)
Help me please, my confidence is lacking because of this. I'm very "thick skinned" so I can take constructive criticism well!
Like the title states, all advice and voiced opinions are appreciated! Thanks!
Help me please, my confidence is lacking because of this. I'm very "thick skinned" so I can take constructive criticism well!
Like the title states, all advice and voiced opinions are appreciated! Thanks!
Hi MaskedSmiley. 20 - 30 years ago, most boys were automatically circumsized. NO questions asked. Then the Pediatrician movement became louder and louder about NOT having children circumsized. So all of a sudden, it was no longer covered by national health programs. It wasn't done in the hospitals and you had to pay out of your own pocket and have it done at a Urologist clinic. As Most Pediatricians refused to do it. So to answer your question, you are DEFINITELY NOT alone, when it comes to men/boys who are no circumsized. In fact, you will be the majority. I have 2 boys, the thought NEVER crossed my mind. I thought to myself "that piece of skin is theirs, and it is obviously there for a reason and I WONT put my children through needless pain". As long as you are conscious of having good pelvic hygeine, there is NO reason whatsoever to be worried about it. Some men do end up having to have a circumsion later on in life, but that percentage is EXTREMELY small, and it is usally from other conditions. So be proud of who you are, and also think of it this way, If a girl/woman you are with freaks out about it, then obviously she isn't a spring chicken - get my drift Good luck and good health! Oh and WEAR a CONDOM!!!!!
Some women do find it unattractive and some don't. It really depends on the woman. I do not think you should get circumcised unless YOU want to. If you are in a relationship talk to your partner about it and let her know that you aren't circumcised and if that is an issue for her. Most women will try anything once and she might even prefer it.
hi,
i agree with brina.
Two out of three women I nave been with prefer circumcised males.
basically all them women who have seen my penis dont have a problem with the fact that im not circumcised so i dont see the problem with it. i think its fine dude.
hope i helped
MaskedSmiley:
I don't really think it makes much different up front. They will probably be more attracted by your personality, etc.
One a woman has had sex with both kind, most prefer the uncircumcised male as a partner.