I have been with m girlfriend for 4 months and I love being with her but lately I started masterbating a lot and I started thinking about breaking up with her. I don't want to because I really like her but I think the extra hormones my body is producing from masterbating is complicating my thoughts. Is that possible?
I'm guessing you've not slept with her yet? Because if you have and masterbating is better then with her maybe you should break up with her.
But if you haven't slept with her you could be thinking “why have a girlfriend if I'm not having sex with her” and you might want to break up because you don't want her to think that shes only good for sex. If so give it another 2 months and talk to her about moving the love up.
But if you haven't slept with her you could be thinking “why have a girlfriend if I'm not having sex with her” and you might want to break up because you don't want her to think that shes only good for sex. If so give it another 2 months and talk to her about moving the love up.
You will continue to masturbate, even after you are in a relationship. Studies and research have shown that virtually all men masturbate, and that they continue, perhaps with a different frequency, when they are sexually involved with someone else.
So, while you may be wondering if masturbation is trying to replace your girlfriend, it isn't really the case. However, one may make you not desire the other as much. It's really a balance that occurs.
There are a lot of reasons why you may not desire to be with your girlfriend as much, or as often... or at all.
Keep looking for what feels best for you, and try to be honest with yourself and her if you should decide to break it off. Be kind, but you shouldn't try to blame it on your masturbation. There's likely other causes.
So, while you may be wondering if masturbation is trying to replace your girlfriend, it isn't really the case. However, one may make you not desire the other as much. It's really a balance that occurs.
There are a lot of reasons why you may not desire to be with your girlfriend as much, or as often... or at all.
Keep looking for what feels best for you, and try to be honest with yourself and her if you should decide to break it off. Be kind, but you shouldn't try to blame it on your masturbation. There's likely other causes.