me and my boyfriend are only 15 and he wants to have sex and we have been going out for a year but im still a virgin and he knows that so he tells me i should let him finger me for a while before we have sex so i can get the feeling of it but im scared and i dont know if i should let him do it so we can have sex but im afraid my hyme will break and start bleeding if i didnt break it yet even though i play allot of sports please help i dont know what to do
Hi Pink,
If you're scared then don't have sex. There is no rush for you. Do you have protection? If not there is a chance you could get pregnant, even the first time. Even with protection it is not foolproof.
He won't "force" you if he loves you. By that I mean say something like "if you love me you will." He should respect your decision.
Hope it helps.
My boyfriend and i are both 16 and he wants to have sex.The odd part is,i was baptized last year when i was 15 at Easter vigil and wore the traditional,white,poofy,sleeveless,top of the knees baptism dress and bonnet with the lace anklets and white mary jane shoes.Like all the other girls baptized with me,i had the traditional white cloth baptismal diaper and plastic pants under my dress with the sleeveless undershirt as my top.My boyfriend wants me to put on the whole outfit and and then give him oral sex first then he wants to undress me and have sex with me! Last year at my party,he got really aroused by the way i looked,and saw the cloth diaper and plastic pants under my dress and told me i looked just like a baby! Now he has been pressuring me to wear the outfit to have sex in.What should i do?
I was in the same position as you when i was 15,only it was my First Holy Communion.I was in the class with the 7 and 8 year olds so my parents dressed me like the little girls in a poofy,knee length,short sleeve communion dress and matching veil with the lace anklets and the white mary jane shoes.They had me also wear the traditional white cloth communion diaper with adult size plastic pants over it and a tee shirt as my top.My boyfriend who was 16,came to my party and loved the way i looked!He put his hand under my dress and felt my diaper and plastic pants and got aroused.After my party,we went to his house and his parents and sister were out,so we kissed,then he unzipped my communion dress and pulled it off of me.He told me he wanted me to give him a blowjob so i got on my knees and did it.Then he too wanted to have sex,but i said no,that i am virgin and want to stay that way.I say put the whole baptism outfit on and give him oral sex,but tell him thats all and be firm about it!
I say put on your entire baptism outfit for him and act like a baby and get him really aroused! Then get on your knees and give him oral sex and when he comes,swallow his load.After that let him strip you down to your diaper and plastic pants and then let him remove them and deflower you!