and yes I have watch men strip of but for pure laughs, and yes a lot of women go crazy but thats life
can I ask how it was brought up in the first place, between you and your wife?
I have been with my husband for 11 years. Our sex life has always been good, but it has gotten better over the past two years and even better the past few months. We are both extremely satisfied in that department. We have sex 1 to 3 times a day. Recently we have opened up even more so to each other and I started watching porn with him. never had interest in it before, not really sure what changed. anyways, I found myself really enjoying double penetration porn. He loves that I am into it, it turns him on. But now I have found myself thinking about it a lot, like I want to try it. MMF threesome. I am just not sure if I want to bring it up to him or how to bring it up to him. He satisfies me plenty, so I don't want him to think otherwise.
like you our sex was great, John's prowess between the sheets is second to none,
the choice of the other man was mine, but we agreed that if John wasn't happy with him then no way,
if after I made my choice and John approved it still took a long time before our first sex night happened,
but it was worth it, when I climaxed for the first time that night John told me that he also came,
mind you for a while I didn't think he liked it because when I reached for him he had lost most of his erection, but after he said what he did and yes the tell tell sign on the sheet,
we have gone a lot further now and my confidence has risen beyond what I thought it could,
for me MFM was the best sexual move I made with my John,
Well my wife and I hav been contemplating this arrangement for about a year now. We rwallu have a great sex life normally at least 5 times weekly and sometimes 2or 3 times daily. We have discussed finding someone local and that appears to be threatening due to several reasons. We are very private people and we love in a small community where people are gossipy. Also we do not want any lingering from the 3rd wheel after the fact. After some time we decided to go online and find a 3rd being a male who is unknown to us and our of state. After cruising the site we selected a 3rd ro open a discussion. This was not an easy task as we both had our reservations both as individuals and as a couple. We both were concened with the disease issues as well as was we selecting an axe murderer. I have to say that I am an average size male and I had concerns in this area as well. My wife is also 10 years younger than I so her selection was a guy her age who was very physically fit although just slightly above average. I will admit at first this was a little intimidating to me but after some thought I came to reality with myself and put that behind me. We have been in constant communication with the 3rd now for a few weeks exchanging pics. and text. We have discussed what we as a couple as well as the 3rd expectations are. We have had basic chit chat talk and learned about each others likes in and out of the bedroom. We have agreed to exchange health cards at tbe meeting. We have not met at this point, but have set a play date. I have to admit, I as the male had reservations about this arrangement at first, but after some time discussing this with my wife and with our new friend I am as excited as my wife. I cant wait until we meet. There is just something taboo and sexy in the thoughts that a man can give his wife a gift as I do believe that most straight women do have a fantasy of being with 2 males at the same time. I know that my wife and I have a great sex life but since we have decided together to go through with this our sex life and sex talk makes both of our sex drives excell. I do believe this can be great thing and can actually make a relationship stronger if all are honest and open. Good luck.
now comes John's quote to me, "the main reason for us to enter into our extra sex fun was and still is sexual satisfaction for both of us,"
I tell most people that I write to, when I had my first climax/orgasm with Ron (he was our first) just after I had a guilt complex, part of me said I shouldn't have climaxed but part of me wanted it to be a success, which it was, when I told John about it afterwards his reply was, "hey why go into things like this if you don't get satisfied"
when we met Ron it was only on a social evening, nothing plan at all, Ron happened to have worked with John a long time ago, and oddly enough I knew him slightly because he dated my friend years ago,
anyway, when John and I talked about him and John asked if I fancied him I said that I did, then came the subject of trust and being discrete, John assured me that Ron wouldn't give anyone the time of day unless they had a good reason,
so over quite a few weeks we just met up with Ron and slowly very slowly we got dancing and joking,
when dancing I could feel Ron getting a bit aroused, Ron would call in on the way home and have a few night caps, then he started to call in on the Sunday lunch time on his way for a pint,
the night we actually had sex was again planned and hoped things worked out which of course they did,
I was dancing at home with Ron and John was making the drinks in the other room, Ron had an erection and asked if he could see me one night, so I came right out and asked if he would like to have sex with me to night, he looked puzzled, then I said that John and I were thinking of invited another into our bed for sex and would he like to join us, I'm happy to say that that night and all the rest have been tremendous, both John and I are very happy and contented,
I think it’s a fantastic idea me and my girlfriend have been fantising for over a year and are now in a text 3 way chat with a friend of mine who is married with no sex life so we are all keen to meet up and have fun. Of course his wife won’t know but at least he will get a chance to let of some steam with my gf while I watch then hopefully it will become a regular thing.
First of all thank u for sharing ur experience
We are happy married couple who interested about me as a first time,,,do u think it can be good risk?
Thx