My adult daughter has abandoned her child and is with her abusive controling boyfriend. Hes just gotten out of jail a couple months ago...hes broke her phone so his phone is the only way to get in touch..but he will not allow myself or her child or any family members to talk to her. Ive seen her only one and she told me hes beating her plus she had bruises all over. I tried calling her at work but she wont come to the phone...help I dont know what to do.
It is time for legal authorities to get involved no one needs to get abused.
I don't think the legal authorities will do much unless the daughter is willing to report it herself and if the movies was to contact them they would only maybe talk to the boyfriend what will just make matters worse for her daughter, it's a move the daughter has to make to contact then get away from him to a safe refuge for abused woman so the can follow up come help her.
Breaking of her phone is in court a offense.I was a juror in a trial with this in part of the case the abuse was also involved.
The mother will need actual evidence she can show what's going on and to be able to talk to her daughter and convince her she needs to leave and in to a safe place, without doing that and taking it into her own hands and reporting it could lead to her daughter getting seriously beaten and hospitalised.
No case of abuse is the same and many abusers can be very smart on finding excuses on how things have happened when the law reinforcements get involved. Without the daughters co-operation it is probably not advisable for the mother to take matters into her hands.
I'm not sure how old your granddaughter is but the only way I could suggest to try and get your daughter to see sense and leave is to get your granddaughter to try and appeal to her mother's good nature and tell her she misses her and wants her to come home, as you say it's your daughter that has to make the decision or she will go against everything you do or say if she feels forced by you.
I don't know what other advice I can give you but I really do hope she sees sense soon and gets out of that relationship.